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I call it multiple edging orgasms. It’s a simple way of combining two of the best orgasm intensifying techniques you’ll ever use, into one sex life altering move that will leave her breathless and wondering which way is up.

This is all good news for you. Because if you put even a little bit of effort into sorting out your approach and technique, you’ll set yourself miles ahead of the pack. When you’re through, she’ll be blissed out, panting and doe-eyed, looking at you like you’re an absolute rock star.

The complexity of sexual relations is shown by the fact that orgasm is not only enjoyed by the person having orgasm. The orgasm of the man is important to the woman, and reversely the orgasm of the woman is felt as important for many men, maybe too important.

Mic asked millennial men why they enjoy performing oral sex on their female partners, whether they think it’s important to having a vibrant sex life and whether they think they’re any good at going down. 

Well, reddit is heavily male dominated. And to be fair, men with good communication skills can give very relevant information. Actually, they can give more relevant information because it can be based on their experiences with many women instead of just one woman recounting her own experiences. With how much variance there is in people with regards to sex, that’s a good thing.

You can also try giving her different types of orgasms, one after another. For example, you can use your mouth and tongue to give her a clitoral orgasm and then use your fingers to give her a g-spot orgasm while her clit “cools down”.

Yes, you can do exercises for your vagina. Kegels will strengthen your vaginal muscles and can make it easier for you to orgasm. Do them by tightening and then relaxing your vaginal muscles (think about what you do when you really have to pee). You can do these anywhere at any time without anyone noticing.

Ask any woman how many times she’s laid on her back, bored and frustrated, her clit having retreated deep inside her, with some unfortunate, badly educated man between her legs, lapping like a thirsty dog, his tongue aching and almost numb, the only stiff part of him being his neck. I think you’ll be surprised at the answer.

About 10% of women have never had an orgasm — either with a partner or during masturbation. And quite a few of them have found their way into my therapy practice. That’s when I tell these women the good news: It is possible to learn to be orgasmic.

All of these contractions are accompanied by a great sensation of pleasure and, in some women, the emission of a small amount of fluid from the vagina – a sort of female ejaculation, a process captured on video many times, and is a real phenomenon.

Men, do not underestimate the amount of razor stubble on your face and how this feels. If a man has not had a shave in over 8 hours, his razor stubble could approximate the grain of 120 grit sandpaper, which is pretty abrasive. Sometimes a little pressure from the chin or upper lip can feel nice, but not if you’re exfoliating the top layer of musocal tissue. If you think back to the ice-cream example, it may help you remember: while eating an ice-cream cone, you wouldn’t stick your chin in it. So if you have razor stubble, make sure it’s only lips and tongue are contacting the area.

Then, use the longest finger of your right hand and move it slowly to the entrance of her vagina. Once you can feel her wetness, push your finger inside (again, move nice and slow). Your hand should be facing upwards, so that your finger can caress the front wall of her vagina, at the famous “G-spot.” Do while continuing clitoral stimulation with your tongue.

First, you’ve got “women” in your title, which assumes that anyone who has a vagina is automatically a woman, regardless of how they might choose to identify themselves. I think it’s pretty damaging to shut down entire avenues of self-identity by branding everyone as one gender or another simply based on what genitalia they happen to have.

We all like being good at things. (Remember how awesome it felt to get a gold star on that fourth-grade math test?) That sentiment also applies to sex: Being told how good you are at giving head is a pretty big ego boost.

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When we orgasm, it is a response of the nervous system to sexual stimulation. Both men and women can experience orgasm under certain conditions, typically following genital stimulation, but there is a lot of variation in people’s orgasm experiences, says Justin Garcia, Scientific Advisor for Match.com. 

The reason? During intercourse (missionary, doggie, woman-on-top, whatever), the penis does not directly stimulate the clitoris, the organ responsible for women’s orgasms. Sexuality experts reassure couples that the woman’s inability to experience orgasm during intercourse is (1) very common, (2) no reflection on her sexual responsiveness, (3) no reflection on the man’s sexual technique, and (4) no reflection the woman’s feelings about the relationship. I agree.

Many women experience frustration from their inability to feel sensation or sexual pleasure from vaginal-penile intercourse. It is common for women to feel closeness, and fullness, but not the intensity they believe that they “should” be feeling. With a little bit of learning and exploration, you can find ways to enjoy various types of pleasure, intimacy, and even ecstasy.

Further analysis of the surveys revealed that women who frequently orgasmed were more likely to have a longer duration of sex and were more likely to have a higher relationship satisfaction, with the study also suggesting that factors such as asking for particular behaviours in bed and flirting with their partner throughout the day were linked to small but significant associations with more frequent orgasms in women.

Thanks for the great info Michael! Just want to add in a little bit of my opinion. If guys want to make your female partner orgasm during intercourse isn’t easy and you need to last at least 5minutes above to make your partner orgasm. If people who can’t last longer than 5 minutes of thrusting your female partner, you should get a mini time out. But do remember, you don’t want to entirely end on intimate contact. Otherwise, you’ll have to re-work harder to get to another higher state of arousal. So maintain the caressing until you feel that hypersensitivity lessen and the heat returning to your moan zone. Hope it helps! =D

Is your girlfriend satisfied with how things are now? I think your quest is noble (though maybe more about you than her?), but your girlfriend’s *satisfaction* should be top priority, NOT her orgasm. Pushing her to have one is just going to make her tense, which will ruin her fun. I bet a lot of guys she’s been with have tried to do what you’re doing- maybe you could be the first one to say, Hey, I think you’re great, I like having fun with you, and I don’t care if you EVER have an orgasm. It doesn’t sound like you’ve been dating too long…. I say, for now, keep things light and fun.

One of the best “you on top” positions to get a woman off is a missionary while putting pressure on the clitoris with the lower pelvis/area right above the base of your penis. Rub hard into it on the in- and out-stroke.

In my research for this article, it turns out that a lot of (i.e. the majority) women are used to bad oral sex. One woman I interviewed even said, “With a lot of guys, I’d rather them just not. Some men seem to be absolutely hopeless with oral sex.”

Practise patiently until you can bring her to orgasm manually, or at least provide enormous pleasure. You will eventually have the skill to give her great pleasure in a variety of ways, and her sexual interest will soar.

I agree with those who have said that the Hitachi Magic Wand isn’t a good starter vibrator. That thing has some torque, lemme tell you. I think the vibe might be a good idea, but starting off small might work better.

While it took 30 minutes or so, and most women will NEVER come to this level of “self mental stimulation” necessary to have an orgasm, it does show how strongly her thoughts will influence her orgasm.

“The orgasm gaps between men and heterosexual women were well known prior to this study,” said Frederick. “The gaps between lesbian women and heterosexual women, however, were more speculative or based on small samples of lesbian women. This study highlights much more precisely that there are multiple orgasm gaps.”

Extra tip: finger her upper wall with two fingers, with a “come here” motion, at the same time as performing oral… this will put pressure on her g-spot, which in reality, is the internal part of the clitoral cluster.

The man lies down on his back. The woman faces the other way and sits down on his penis. Then, in her own time, she gradually lowers herself so that – with his penis inside her – her back is lying fully outstretched on the front of his body.

Virginity is a social construct. Also the gspot is a lie. Penetration is painful for most women to some degree. Very delicate tissues. You should be critical of what society has brainwashed women into doing. Don’t let yourself be pressured into penetration. You don’t ever have to do it. In my opinion the risk are not worth the perceived pleasure.

Let’s get this out of the way right off the bat: Health problems can get in the way of an orgasm. So, if something more than your sex life feels off, you should visit a doctor. In absence of a medical problem, however, a woman’s orgasms, or the lack of them, go way beyond what’s going on with her body. That means the main secret to a woman’s orgasms is that they’re as individual as the woman herself. Learning to bring yourself or your female partner to a climax, therefore, can be a learning process, where’s there’s always room for improvement. Here are three common things that can boost a woman’s orgasmic potential – and that couples tend to overlook. 

For her, this really does everything to do with being comfortable, relaxed, and free of anxiety. Every woman has to learn to have orgasms at some point…some of us figured it out independently at a young age, others may have had hangups or negative experiences with sexuality that made them feel they shouldn’t explore it. She has some learning to do, but it’s nothing the rest of us haven’t done (and continue to do…amazing how we can always surprise ourselves). It will probably be easier, at least at first, for her to learn this on her own and probably in private in conjunction with whatever she does with you.

The first and most important lesson is to practice developing a balance of tension and relaxation during sexual activity. But, my women clients ask, how can they be both tense and relaxed at the same time? It’s a good question, and here is my two-part answer:

Sexuality authorities also encourage couples to let go of the idea that women “should” have orgasms during intercourse. They encourage men to help women to orgasm using their fingers, hand, tongue, or a vibrator or other sex toys.

I blame bad communication and porn. Remember the last time you watched a man giving oral sex on camera? She was probably already naked when the film started. He will probably have given her tits a quick squeeze before going down on her, diving straight in, separating her lips and licking away furiously like a man possessed. If this is how you give head to your woman, you need to keep reading. Sure, the female arousal process can be very complicated. But once you understand a few things, your neck and jaw are going to thank me.

Every female is different. There is no point in rigidly following those ‘Ten Easy Steps to Give Her an Oral Orgasm’ articles in lads’ mags. It isn’t like an exam, with right and wrong answers. Sometimes you have to experiment to see what works for both of you.

For some women, orgasm during intercourse is nearly impossible, and it is very easy for sex to become some sort of contest between them and their partners to “make it happen.” Don’t try too hard. Don’t try every time. Don’t concentrate too much on the physical, or strictly on technique.

Give importance to foreplay: Keep in mind that intercourse alone cannot lead to an epic orgasm. You need to dedicate enough time to foreplay. This is not a race, so don’t be in a hurry to dive in and get to the end of the act. If you can master the art of arousing her in a slow and steady manner, chances are that she will last longer in bed and find the experience to be a lot more pleasurable and satisfying. Use your hands and tongue for the same. To help woman get multiple orgasms, help her to get aroused with manual and oral stimulation. For many women oral sex is the ultimate way to get aroused, so get into the act before the real action. Here are some best sex positions if you’re trying to get pregnant.

Have little pep-talks: Most men are averse to conversation, but you don’t need to have deep meaningful conversations; just talk or whisper in each other’s ears. That sleepy heavy voice that emanates during such moments is what makes the act a lot more sensual and intimate, both for you and your woman.  Also know exactly how women can fake an orgasm.

If you don’t have the staying power to keep going with penetrative sex, one answer lies in becoming amazing at oral sex. And you can also spend lots more time on foreplay and focus on finding the best position and movement for your partner so that you can bring that time down.

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Also there is Yogasm, where you girl can reach orgasm without touching her clitoris or stimulating. There is video of girl getting orgasm without touching herself on http://www.fapon.me (care its NSFW)

You said she feels like she has to pee? Good! That means you’re hitting the right spot. You just have to keep it up. Make sure she knows that this sensation is perfectly normal, and that she needs to relaxy down there, instead of tighten up – I know I get too tense to vaginally orgasm!

I’m glad you found the article uesful! It’s a very common thing for guys to last much longer with a condom on. You could try a desensitizing spray without the condom, if physical sensitivity is the main issue. I’d also suggest looking around this site for help. There are lots of articles with information about improving your sexual stamina.

And over the last 10 years or so, I’ve made somewhere between 20 and 30 women have multiple orgasms in just a few minutes… (I’m not a male gigolo; just a very horny man in Miami, a city with plenty of “resources” in the female department).

An alternative technique is sensory overload. “Simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation is far and away the fastest route to orgasm,” says Hall. Having her from behind is the best position for this because while you work the former, you can call up sex-toy reinforcements to take care of the latter. “My recommendation would be one from the discreet but powerful Philips Sensual range.”

Stare with fiery intention into her eyes while you keep your hand going. If you’re comfortable doing so, talk dirty to her. Ask her in a whisper if she wants anything to change. That gives her permission to communicate in the heat of the moment. Keep your technique steady. If it feels incredible to her, don’t change anything even if she says she’s going to come.

Some men won’t even give it at all, but even of those who do, it is often a quick formality before sex. This is the wrong way to approach going down on her. Get in there, get comfortable, and enjoy it.

What people get off on sexually can vary as much as love songs on the radio. While some women may prefer to perform oral sex on the ladies they love, there are likely as many who prefer to receive it. And while one can’t claim to know for sure why people get off on the things they do, here are some reasons a woman might prefer to giving over receiving:

I was able to oragsum with my partner for 9 months and haven’t been able to in the last three. It’s something we will work through because we love each other. I understand how you feel in how’s your fault but it’s not. Iv cried many times thinking it was my fault. But it’s not, if you continue to think it’s your burden you will never get past your mental hurtle. Don’t let these guys blame you or make you feel worse, iv been in relationships like that and it’s no fun. The female oragsum can be really enjoyable if with the right person.. It doesn’t always have to hurt.

Extra tip: finger her upper wall with two fingers, with a “come here” motion, at the same time as performing oral… this will put pressure on her g-spot, which in reality, is the internal part of the clitoral cluster.

Instead of treating your partner like a machine whose job it is to give you an orgasm, heed the advice of Dr. Carlen Costa, a sexologist and relationship expert from Canada, and change your attitude first. “You’re supposed to own your orgasm,” Dr. Carlen says.

Also when you or she feels like she is about to “pee” or you want to make sure she is not faking it just move your fingers back about an 1/2 inch to an inch and you should feel it start to sort of balloon up i guess you could say and then just carefuly press on it and almost flaten it out and she will cum hope this helps!

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If you’re a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort – even in a position where it’s difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips – then you are very lucky indeed!

thanks to the ladies who’ve already said nix to the “vibrators are bad for women” comment, and seconded/thirded/whatever. especially the bit about how the more women have orgasms, the more able they are to have more in the future. for me anyway, and most of my female friends, it’s like a burner. you can keep it completely switched off as often as you like, and when it’s off, you don’t even think about it. but once you do light it, you can just go and go and go, varying intensity, whatever. you have to light it though first. otherwise it’s totally shut.

Many women experience frustration from their inability to feel sensation or sexual pleasure from vaginal-penile intercourse. It is common for women to feel closeness, and fullness, but not the intensity they believe that they “should” be feeling. With a little bit of learning and exploration, you can find ways to enjoy various types of pleasure, intimacy, and even ecstasy.

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The real value, though, is in the “touchable” videos that let you practice the techniques. They used thousands of images of each woman’s vagina to create incredibly realistic simulations that respond to the speed, pressure, location and rhythm of your fingers on a touchscreen device. As you follow the instructions and perform the techniques correctly, you’re rewarded with (again, pretty hot) audio feedback.

It may be hidden, but that doesn’t mean you can’t stimulate it if you know what you’re doing. While still tonguing her clitoris, push one finger slowly into her vagina. Leave it until she seems comfortable. Add a second finger, but note that for some women this might be uncomfortable.

Remember that women’s sexual arousal builds up gradually, and it can progress more slowly than a man’s arousal. For that reason, it is always best to start giving a woman oral sex slowly and softly. She may be very sensitive, especially at the start, and going too hard or too fast can be overwhelming. Some women cannot tolerate direct contact with their clitoris and need to have the area pretty wet for it to be comfortable. Others will prefer that you always lick across the clitoris over the skin that covers it so that you don’t have direct contact with it. Some will prefer that you incorporate licking over the U-Spot as well. By going slow you have a chance to explore the area and find out just what she likes and where. A good example to follow is thinking about how you would lick an ice-cream cone. You can start off with a wide, soft tongue and take it from there. This is also less tiring, so you can go on for a longer period of time. If she wants you lick harder or have a pointier tongue, she will let you know.

Let’s face it: it’s incredibly sexy to observe someone else experiencing sexual pleasure. But to get the most enjoyment from offering oral sex to another person, one needs to be exceptionally mindful and present during the act. Whether or not we admit it, if you are giving your partner oral pleasure simply as a means to an end, then you probably won’t enjoy it as much.

I did know a girl once who had Anorgasmia, and that is something that there really is no cure for. It’s possible, and more common in women. I’m not saying be pessimistic really, but realise it’s a possibility.

According to a recent study funded by Church & Dwight Co. Inc., the maker of Trojan products, women are more likely to orgasm when oral sex, or cunnilingus, is included in foreplay. Seventy percent of women aged 20 to 24 reported receiving oral sex during sex—so guys, if you’re not going down on your girl, you’re not measuring up to the majority of women’s sexual experiences.

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DON’T slobber your whole mouth/face over my vulva. The worst is when men have beard stubbles and do this. It hurts and isn’t pleasurable in the least! Don’t suck my clit (although some women like this). Use the tip of your tongue and only use very little pressure at the beginning (maybe increase the pressure when she is properly aroused). The most common mistake is being too rough and putting too on much pressure.

“Women really are tremendously variable in how readily they orgasm and what makes one woman orgasm can be quite different than what makes another woman orgasm,” said Prof Frederick. “Explicit and direct communication with one’s partner is key.”

For me, going down on a woman I love often feels like sitting down to a steak dinner after 40 days in the desert. There’s just something about the idea that sets me on fire, which has led me to talk with some experts and research various techniques over the years.

Cunnilingus before intercourse can significantly improve both partners’ experience because, to put it simply, it’s better when it’s wetter. (Plus, she’ll probably be more inclined to reciprocate, if you’re into that sort of thing.)

Your tongue and jaw will get tired, at least until you are giving oral sex on a regular basis. When you need a rest, take her clitoris between your lips and give it a mini-blowjob. This will drive her wild. [Read: The man’s guide to lasting longer during sex without any difficulty]

Clitorises can vary greatly between women. Some are quite big, others tiny. But they’ll always be in the same place so it’s just a matter of knowing where to look. As it becomes more stimulated, it will swell and become more prominent. With the hand you wrapped around her leg and placed on her stomach, pull back slightly on the skin just above the hood and the clitoris will become more exposed.

Also there is Yogasm, where you girl can reach orgasm without touching her clitoris or stimulating. There is video of girl getting orgasm without touching herself on http://www.fapon.me (care its NSFW)

It’s as easy as believing it’s possible for you personally to climax more than once, Anami says. Next is learning to relax: “Deeper orgasms are all about a very intense state of release, so you have to be willing to dive into the unknown and let go,” Anami adds. Once your attitude starts to shift, two or more orgasms may well become your new normal, Rose says.

Many women say that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration. So remember to take it easy and avoid being rough, especially to begin with. Look where you are going too. Gently part the outer lips of the vagina and look for the vaginal opening, and the hooded clitoris above it. These are the most pleasurable areas to stimulate, and are the key to giving the best head. Thrusting a tongue in and out of the vagina might feel good for a moment or two, but it won’t be enough to tip her over the edge.

But many couple wish the woman could come during intercourse. The good news is that there are easy, loving ways to boost women’s chance of orgasm during intercourse. The easiest ways involve the woman-on-top and rear entry (doggie) positions. Orgasm is more challenging in the man-on-top (missionary) position, but a minor adjustment makes it considerably more likely.

Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes to sexual functioning for two reasons: First, since anything musky mimics testosterone, it’ll kick her libido into high gear. Baby powder can have a similar effect by activating her “scent print,” which links babies to procreation. Second, because smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression. The second she gets a whiff of your musky cologne, she’ll be transported back to the last time she smelled it on your body.

Additionally, Natalie Angier wrote in Woman: An Intimate Georgraphy that many women who have difficulty reaching orgasm can get past that with the help of a little pot. If she’s amenable to that, it’s worth a try.

If your wife has experienced orgasm, it’s unlikely that she wouldn’t know. Ask her to help you understand how she’s feeling about your sex life together. Encourage her to talk in detail about what feels good and what does not, and try to be a non-judgmental listener. Since most genital nerve endings are concentrated on the clitoris, women need direct or semi-direct clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. So, during intercourse, it’s wise to provide clitoral stimulation as well.

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You’ve gotta learn how to push her buttons, which is actually really easy when you know how. There’s an awesome guide called Revolutionary Sex that shows you everything and the techniques work so damn good. Here’s a link to the guide: Revolutionary Sex – Give Her The Best Orgasm of Her Life

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The sure-fire option is to address her clitoris: by changing your thrusting motion so your pelvis grinds into her, or by slowing down (crucial, this) such that you can accurately use your thumb. (This same attention to detail goes for nipple pinching, spanking, or a wet finger pressing up against her behind. Flailing attempts are beneath you – do it well or not at all.)

Some women come easily from any type of stimulation but prefer one orgasm to another. I love receiving oral sex but I find that I enjoy the orgasms I get from sex the best. So once again, it’s better to just ask her what she likes.

Hi. My wife doesn’t like oral kissing, nipple kissing and caressing, clitorial stimulation and she said she feels good only during intercourse. She also doesnt like prolonged penetration. Does he have problem???

If you’re a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort – even in a position where it’s difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips – then you are very lucky indeed!

It’s as easy as believing it’s possible for you personally to climax more than once, Anami says. Next is learning to relax: “Deeper orgasms are all about a very intense state of release, so you have to be willing to dive into the unknown and let go,” Anami adds. Once your attitude starts to shift, two or more orgasms may well become your new normal, Rose says.

If you are expecting to give your woman an orgasm through penetration, then you must get her aroused first and foremost. Foreplay is crucial to the g-spot orgasm and this is what you have to focus on the most here. Although the clitoris does bring her satisfaction, you need to focus on the g-spot if you want to make her orgasm during intercourse. As you get her aroused during foreplay, this increases blood flow to the g-spot, making it bigger and more engorged. This makes it easier for you to hit during sex.MORE AT — http://tinyurl.com/j68s5dm

Even if you decide to give a man oral sex, it doesn’t mean that you have to let him ejaculate (or cum) in your mouth – the choice is yours. Of course, if he’s wearing a condom this won’t be such an issue, and it means you will both be protected against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It’s also entirely up to you how long you continue for.

If you’re and comfortable with the person you’re with then oral sex can be a great way to get physically closer and learn what turns each other on. But remember that you can pause or stop at any point you want, and the same is true for your partner. Just because you have started something doesn’t mean you need to continue – stopping is actually very normal.

Several years ago I was surprised to read a column in Bottom Line written by a sex therapist that suggested to focus on your own pleasure rather your partner’s, which may sound selfish or evil but if you both are focusing on the partner’s pleasure you’re kind of distracted from your own so in the end no one gets off (heh).

And I don’t mean masturbate (yet). There’s a lot going on down there, and you should get to know your body. Sit in front of a mirror and check out what’s happening. The fastest way to masturbate is by stimulating your clitoris, so try to figure out where that is. But I wouldn’t bother looking for the elusive G-spot. Just focus on figuring out what’s what and where everything is.

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If you’ve never tried this before with your partner, Dr. Carlen says to take your time and take it slow. “You don’t have to jump in with the dirtiest thing because it can come across as awkward or unauthentic,” she says. Instead of whispering in his ear that you want to have an orgy with him and 15 members of a football team, Dr. Carlen says tried-and-true dirty talk includes saying things like “I love it when you do (fill in the blank),” and the universally hot, “Oh, baby, I’m coming.”

Every female is different. There is no point in rigidly following those ‘Ten Easy Steps to Give Her an Oral Orgasm’ articles in lads’ mags. It isn’t like an exam, with right and wrong answers. Sometimes you have to experiment to see what works for both of you.

But remember to work gently at first! Just a flick of the tongue, or a chaste kiss in the beginning could intensify your partner’s sensations. And for your own benefit, remember to be present to taste, texture, smells, sensations. By now your partner is likely very aroused, and it is highly possible that you are, too. Once you have your mouth on your partner’s genitalia, just explore. Try different approaches such as varying pressure or speed of sucking or licking. Remain aware of his/her responses and use your intuition to keep the “conversation” ongoing.

Oh, oh, baby! There are many factors that contribute to how an orgasm feels. One variable is the type of physical stimulation, and to what body parts. A “vaginal orgasm” is the notion that women can have an orgasm through stimulation during intercourse or other vaginal penetration, entirely without clitoral stimulation. However, the vagina has few nerve endings, and therefore cannot create an orgasm on its own. Instead of thinking of the vagina and clitoris as separate entities, try thinking about them as a network of nerves and muscles.

After foreplay by kissing and fondling (may have to continue for up to 20 minutes) the partner or the person herself stimulates the clitoris (the area below the labia or genital lips, and above the vagina opening) by rapidly flicking a finger or the tongue back and forward or up and down. Do not press hard. If you are using a finger, be sure to use lots of lubricating gel (can be bought at a drug store). If you are using the tongue, lubricating gel is usually not necessary, since lubrication comes from the mouth. Ask her concentracte on sexy thoughts at the same time.

One mistake many guys make time and time again is that they often assume oral sex is virtually the same thing as standard intercourse. DO NOT simply thrust your tongue in and out of the vagina as you would with your penis. The tongue does not provide enough friction and is not long or thick enough to make this pleasurable. In general, stick to areas that are easier to access—like the clitoris. The clitoris is a woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone and, when stimulated correctly, leads to mind-blowing orgasms. Tease her for a while by lightly circling it with your tongue. Then try taking it into your mouth and gently sucking on it while softly flicking your tongue over the area—almost like a French kiss.

I’m going to go one step further than this and suggest that that you go ahead and experiment with different techniques, positions and whatever under the specific understanding that she is not going to have an orgasm and you’re not going to try to give her one. The difference between “If it happens, it happens” and “It’s not going to happen” is that the latter gets rid of the last little bit of anxiety.

One of the best “you on top” positions to get a woman off is a missionary while putting pressure on the clitoris with the lower pelvis/area right above the base of your penis. Rub hard into it on the in- and out-stroke.

Sometimes I think I’m alone in this. I just don’t think it’s that fantastic. I like to be bodily manipulated instead. And fingering. I just don’t cum at all from oral. It’s nice but it’s just not that exciting ever.

“Part of this difference in perception could be due to women faking orgasms, which research has suggested women will do for a variety of reasons, including out of love for their partner, to protect their partner’s self-esteem, intoxication, or to bring the sexual encounter to an end,” the authors note.

This myth that all sexual activity must end in climax often derails people. Expectations are set up and then when they are not met, disappointment ensues. People can feel inadequate that they haven’t had an orgasm, or feel as if they are not doing it right if their partner didn’t have an orgasm. If you remove all the hype around orgasm, you create an environment that facilitates relaxation and enjoyment. Sometimes it is good enough to just feel those amazing sensations without focusing on the goal!

Although this article was written with the best of intentions, it is important to point out for StudLife and its readers that titling this piece “A guy’s guide to oral sex” is, without question, heterosexist. That title actually promotes injustices, marginalizes the LGBT community, reinforces the heterosexual sense of privilege and normativity, and could be interpreted as an ignorant and discriminatory statement. Education is the only solution to promoting “Socially Just” dialogue internal and external to StudLife. Therefore, I would recommend that care be taken in future articles to insure that meaning is properly worded. Perhaps, re-wording your title to take away the assumption that the reader is heterosexual, or speaking to both heterosexual and homosexual populations in your piece would be ways in which these concerns are eliminated. Thank you and feel free to contact your friends in Residential Life and/or the SJC for more information.

The good news is it’s not difficult. You just need to understand one golden rule: employ the art of teasing. To deny a woman what she wants until the last possible moment is to have her coming harder than ever. You must learn to divert your attention away from the obvious areas, which are, in general ascending order (but variable from woman to woman): her nipples, ass, G-spot and clit.

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Men under 50 need to understand that it often takes women quite a while to become highly aroused, like 30 to 45 minutes. That’s why men should not jump into vaginal intercourse. They should allow women the time they need to become sufficiently aroused to actually enjoy intercourse. That’s why whole-body touching is so important. Touching women all over (not just their breast and between their legs) but everywhere from their scalp to their feet not only gives them the time they need to become highly aroused and ready for genital play, it also makes genital sex more enjoyable because whole-body arousal increases genital sensitivity to touch. The same is true for men.

I didn’t orgasm in the presence of a partner (or maybe it was just during intercourse? not sure) until I was 19 years old. For me I needed someone I DIDN’T care about to remove that fear of loss causing me to care what he thought. Admittedly I felt comfortable with this person because he was very inexperienced (later he told me he lost his virginity to me which upset me because I had no idea and it certainly wasn’t “special”!), thus making me feel more confident that I wouldn’t be compared to someone else, or whatever. This one “step” made me feel more sexually confident in subsequent relationships. This person wasn’t just any stranger, I had known him for a few years and we were sort of kind of “dating” (if you want to call it that).

If you choose the first option, then your task is to keep your partner’s pleasure heightened. Try changing positions to see which is most pleasurable. Once you find the right technique, keep at it until you’ve reached your desired result. Have confidence in your endurance and let your penis do what it was made for!

In fact, contrary to stereotypes that most straight men hate going down on ladies, for many men giving oral sex is just as good as getting it. According to data from the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, a majority of millennial men reported having performed oral sex on their female partners in the past year — and it wasn’t just for reciprocity’s sake.

A great lover is a very good thing to be. Your partner will be more giving, and you’ll have more confidence meeting a new woman knowing that you can make her come. Giving great oral sex is the key to being a great lover, so get out there and try out these 8 tips and techniques. She’ll be glad you did, and so will you!

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一些人亦有可能会体验到多重性高潮[3][18][19],另外也有一些人会在诸如强奸或其他性侵犯的情况下,发生非自愿性高潮。由非自愿性行为引起的性高潮经常会使受害者感到羞耻,这是由受害者责备(英语:Victim blaming)此一态度内化所致[20][21]。经历过非自愿性行为,以及由此产生性高潮的人非常罕见,尽管可能因羞耻或尴尬这些负面情绪的影响,而使相关的报告不符合实际情况;不论男女,都有可能会发生这样的情况[21]。

由于前面姿势半蹲位使男性补充了体力,降低了生物电槽,所以再第3个姿势。后背位使用时候,有了充足的体力,有了发力点,阴茎以80%长度进入。坚持这种姿势2分半-4分钟,女性生物电可能由于快速的猛烈撞击,获得阴道内高潮。2分半-4分钟后,男性有效体力基本用完,需要马上补充,生物电积累大概再40%左右。–换女性坐立位,男性躺下,女性面对面坐与上面。男性的体力槽开始恢复–生物电槽开始增长,而且是高速增长。

  娟娟和她的丈夫秉天探索出了一种新方法:回到家后,他们会花至少45分钟时间谈一些轻松的话题,这就是他们彼此相互尊重和营造和谐气氛的方法之一。“现在,我们总算是一对完美组合了。”娟娟很满意自己现在的生活状态。“和以前相比,我们不再疲惫不堪,频度也没有以前那么多了,我们只在双方都愿意的时候才做。当你在迈进家门的时候心情是如此放松,所有的压力都不复存在,性也变得更热切了。”家本来就是休憩的港湾,舒适和尽情才是目的。卸下所有应付外面世界的伪装和盔甲,陶然自乐,性爱的高端体验也在身心一致的状态下自然而来。

  可是昨天晚上,我们一起出去卖了羊肉调料,晚上吃了火锅,喝了啤酒,给她买了Smirnoff酒。然后一边吃晚饭,一边看我刚刚下载的A片。是一部很 场,只用30秒!30秒!!所有的女孩儿都喷,百试不爽!而全都是那种浑身抽搐,肌肉僵硬的极度高潮。然后,高手提示了几点注意,都是我以前都知道的。以 前不是没找过G点。都没成功过。所以有G点不是人人都有的理论,我也就相信我老婆是没有G点的。由于这个片子拍得极其真实,我们都看得春心荡漾,我们就决 定试一下。 5aq @ z*V/s_0f^

还未踏入办公室,他就已经听说公司的秘书科群芳争艳,传闻中的“七仙女”各个都是美丽性感的白领丽人,可是没想到,他在公司第一个碰到的,竟然是那位与他早有过节的、刁蛮热辣的女邻居。一边是金融市场的瞬息万变,一边是情天欲海的汹涌波涛;一边是职场拼杀的尔虞我诈,一边是儿女情长的相爱相杀,他一步步走向总裁的宝座,而她也逐渐被他的爱情俘获,当他惊喜的发现,传说中的秘书组七仙女也在明里暗里协助他时,最终的登顶似乎已在不远。然而,不久之后,他却意识到,她的爱情和秘书组美女们的青睐背后,隐藏着一个惊人的秘密和阴谋……本书是“错上总裁床”系列作品之一,同时作者在正本完结后还补写了番外篇“情天欲海”。本作品笔触大胆,文风狂狼,是总裁小说类型中非常别具一格的作品。

      这时候的女生相信大多是水如泉涌了,这时候女人的阴水大多是透明,比较稀,如果你喜欢的话,可以把它喝了(不是开玩笑),女生体内刚分泌出来的,不会脏的了。应该怎么样亲阴唇呢?这时候先不要动手,要用舌头把女生的大阴唇分别向二边撬开(有些女生的大阴唇较小,或较兴奋时,阴唇可能已经自行分开);含住女生的一片阴唇,用舌头扫动已经含在嘴里的它,阴唇的里外二面都要顾及,然后换一片阴唇,动作依然。最后身体稍侧,让自己的嘴唇与女生的阴唇呈平行状态,轻轻的把女生的二片阴唇同时含进嘴里一起吸住,用舌头从二片阴唇中间做插入抽出横扫动作,那女生会舒服死的。

孟继贤:性生活结束以后,特别是男方达到性高潮了,包括有时候女方也达到性高潮,这个时候随着性兴奋的下降,男女双方,特别是男方是很自然的会出现一种身体和精神松弛,然后疲惫的感觉,很容易男方就掉过头去睡觉了。这个时候男方应该从关心妻子的角度,关心对方的角度,看看女方的状态,如果女方很快的也是进入疲惫状态,睡觉了,那当然也可以不采用后戏,或者是后戏的时间很短,这就要看双方的情况,特别是看对方的情况,如果男方结束以后,身体很快疲惫,而女方还有意犹未尽的感觉,那么这个时候男方应该从关心妻子的角度,给妻子必要的关心和爱抚,也就是要有必要的后戏,或者叫做事后温存和爱抚的过程,这是男人必须要尽的一份义务。所以著名的文学家,巴尔扎克有一句名言,丈夫永远没有理由先睡。

为了让她达到最大限度的快感,就要更多地增加对她敏感部位的接触。以下是一种上她彻底疯狂的方法。让她平躺下来,张开双腿,然后爬到她上面,双臂绕过她的肩膀,用肘支撑着上身,你的胸部在她下巴的位置。这样做的目的是让你阴茎的下部可以接触到她的阴蒂。慢慢地摩擦,专注于上下的运动,而不是进进出出。另一个很棒的做法是,用你的阴茎上方隆起的部分在她的阴蒂上画圈,或者是做上下运动。这样可以让你从高强度的接触中解放出来休息一下,同时她也能从这种行为中感受到你的专注–这是女人觉得最重要的事情。

  5〉体会过这种高潮的女人,会对给他高潮的男人有极度的崇拜和依恋。想让她这辈子忘了你,是打死也不可能了。不过小心,想让她轻易放过你,也是不大可 能的了。呵呵,各位玩一夜情的兄弟小心。我在录像里面就看到这样的镜头,很有意思。那个女孩儿本来不认识那个高手,是别人带他来的,没喷过水。被人弄了很 长时间都没反应,高手上去,20秒解决战斗。那个女孩儿羞得不行了,站起来拉着那个人的手不放开,把头*在那个人的胸前。这是很少见的了,美国女孩儿本来 就开放,她看起来也肯定有很多次性经验了。守着一屋子人和摄像机分开腿都不害羞,怎么会有这种反应?可见女人的这种心理多么强!y”IV5x RHTe}

高潮和性活动都是一项全身性的活动,当中可涉及到多个主要身体系统的运作。1997年,一项跟进了918名45-59岁的男性10年并发表于《英国医学期刊》的研究显示,与每周高潮两次或以上的男性相比,每周高潮少于此数的男性有一倍的机会会因任何原因死亡[110]。2001年的一项后续研究则更为关注心血管健康,并发现每周三次或更多的性行为跟心脏病发作或中风的风险降低一半有关[111]。(但需注意相关不蕴涵因果)

在20世纪70年代,海伦·辛格·卡普兰(英语:Helen Singer Kaplan)把性欲期也加进周期中,她认为性欲期先于兴奋期,并指出焦虑、心存戒备,以及缺乏沟通会影响当事人的性欲和高潮[90]。在80年代后期,罗斯玛丽·巴松(Rosemary Basson)提出了一种更具周期性的方案,她所提出的反应周期大致是以线性的方式发展[91]。在她所建构的模型中,性欲把性兴奋和高潮加深,其他的性反应周期亦会加大性的欲望。她亦不把性高潮视为一次性经验的高峰,反把其视作周期上的一点,并认为人们可在任何阶段感到满足,减少对把高潮视为所有性活动的最终目标的关注[92]。

(波兰文) Kazimierz Imieliński. Zarys seksuologii i seksiatrii. Warszawa 1986, PZWL, ISBN 83-200-1047-0 See also in the following Russian translation: Имелинский К.: Сексология и сексопатология (Sexology a. Sexopathology). Москва: Медицина, 1986. — С. 57. (Chapter “Nervous system”)

三、女人的能否放下自我防备。这是件很困难的事,由于人类进化过程中社会发展对于女人提出的贞洁性(有助于男人确定自己的后代)和挑剔性(有助于后代更好的抚养和发展),女人在性爱过程中往往伴随着两种质疑。首先,质疑这个男人是我想要的男人吗?他能给予后代稳定的经济条件和更好的机遇吗?这种质疑是在潜意识中发生的,并没有经过大脑的思考。而且现代女生地位的进高使其对男人提出了更加苛刻的条件。除了通常意义上的财富、社会地位,还附加了身高、谈吐、受教育程度、细心、体贴、容易沟通等更多的限制。其次,我的任何开放性的表现会不会被视为不贞节的征兆?为了达到性高潮提出的多种性爱姿势的尝试会不会被看成是私生活很乱?男人会不会因此而抛弃我?女性朋友会不会因此对我评头论足?以后还会不会有其他的男人喜欢我?众多的心理压力会让女性无法放下自我防备,从而无法尽情的享受性高潮。这样一来,很难会有一个非常称心如意的男人让女人能放下自我防备。加上中国婚姻法的出台,让更多的女人觉得男人不足够可靠,自己只会沦为一个暂时性的玩伴。这都影响着中国女性的高潮。

第四,善待男人的父母、家人和朋友。不孝的男人不值得爱,孝顺的男人当然希望你也能爱屋及鸟。男人有的怕太太只知道常回娘家看看,而到婆家,却似隔山隔水一样的难。有的怕太太眼里根本就没有自己那脸朝黄土背朝天的老父老母。有的怕太太小鸡肚肠、斤斤计较父母一碗水端不平。有的怕太太慢怠自己的亲戚朋友。而做为为人妻为人母为人媳为人嫂等等多种身份的太太,如果真处理不好之间的关系,很大程度上会影响到夫妻感情,男人常常是风箱的老鼠两头受气。所以,明智的太太,知道亲切友善的对待老公的父母家人,带着孩子,常回婆家看看,或者一个问候的电话,一封家常的信,一件精选的礼物,都能使老公对你疼爱之余更生崇敬之心——我太太很明事理呀。

完美性爱必备要素对于现代人来说,性爱的探索是没有止境的,可是完美健康科学刺激的性爱,需要必备下面5个要素。不要过于在意性爱次数,也不要总认为性是责任和义务,全身心投入,你会觉得生活因为性爱变得美好。性爱需要动听的声音来刺激:耳边的情话、激情时的呻吟,都能让性爱更加美满。所以,不妨从小处着手,给性爱更多的浪漫和激情。当然,性爱是时时需要新鲜的,所以我们不能止步于此,还应该为性爱添加更多的激情与刺激。

“how to give him the best oral _oral sax”

#3 Know how and where she likes to be touched. Girls who touch themselves would know the perfect formula on reaching an orgasm in the most enjoyable way they can. This is an important clue to understanding how to finger a girl that most people overlook!

Congratulations. You found the G-spot. In cases like this, there’s a lot more to it than that. Don’t underestimate the emotional situation. If you are making her feel inadequate, you are undermining the whole thing. If you stop concentrating on your own enjoyment because you’re OBSESSED with making her come, then you’re denying her the pleasure of pleasing you. Don’t be a freak about it.

Nice to see a answer on female orgasms that includes the fact the Clitoris actually extends down and around the vagina and lower portion of the anus. So many assume the Clit and Vagina are separate entities when they are actually as you said “as a network of nerves and muscles”. I’m always blown away how many females don’t know their own anatomy and how it works. Many miss out on great sex because of this.

We’ll tell you what gives. While tons of people like to brag that they are gifted when it comes to pleasuring a woman with oral sex, they probably aren’t. And to make matters worse, a lot of us are too embarrassed to call the shots and guide someone when they are down there. Nope, we grin and bear it and most of the time even give the person a pat on the back for their efforts. Awkward.

Men, do not underestimate the amount of razor stubble on your face and how this feels. If a man has not had a shave in over 8 hours, his razor stubble could approximate the grain of 120 grit sandpaper, which is pretty abrasive. Sometimes a little pressure from the chin or upper lip can feel nice, but not if you’re exfoliating the top layer of musocal tissue. If you think back to the ice-cream example, it may help you remember: while eating an ice-cream cone, you wouldn’t stick your chin in it. So if you have razor stubble, make sure it’s only lips and tongue are contacting the area.

I tested every trick and technique I learned on many different types of women.From young rich college co-eds to more mature and experienced women.From women who were shy and inexperienced to the erotically liberated freaks.I took note of the stuff that worked and dropped the shit that didnt and ended up with the list of 67 techniques that make women come.67 techniques that I used to be 100% positive my clients were satisfied every single time.”

of course there are such things G-spots, vaginal orgasms and multiple-orgasms (the kind where you shake all over and can’t walk for an hour). I’ve experienced all of them plenty of times, and there is not one time during sex without us experiencing orgasms. The secret is just to make your husband/boyfriend penetrate you deeply and keep his penis as close to your ‘front’ wall as possible, the G-spot is assumed to be near your front wall. Both of you have to be really wet, so don’t skip arousals and romantic turn-ons! I recommend gentle cullingus and even oral breast-stimulation (on the nipple, it’s AWWESOME) before ‘soft’ sex, and finally deep, breath-taking penetration. You have to try to ‘massage’ her front wall and clit with your penis first, before hard fast sex. My favorite positions are cowgirl (grrrr!), missionary with the man standing high or kneeling, the lotus (you can kiss and touch during sex), and cowboy! It’s important for your partner or yourself (whoever is on top) to try standing as high (and reach forward) as possible, it’s unbelievably orgasm-inducing. And remember to maintain eye contact, kiss and caress your partner, it’s called lovemaking after all! Believe me, guys, there’s nothing like vaginal orgasms!

Some positions will achieve orgasm quicker than others, so enjoy experimenting to see what works best for you both. You might be surprised to find that women love being on top and being made to feel in charge and in control.

Some guys will jump head first off the high dive into her lap and start lapping her up like their lives depended on it. There’s a time and a place for that, but her experience will be way more pleasurable if you start out very, very slow.

Sometimes the first thing we try when attempting to masturbate won’t work. If you haven’t been able to masturbate through fingering or intercourse, don’t feel like you’re weird. Just be open to trying new things – look into sex toys, maybe watch porn or think about different techniques. The same things don’t always work for everyone, so be open to the possibility that you might need to experiment a little.

This is a really great article on female orgasms! Don’t forget that it’s not a “problem” if you can’t climax without clitoris stimulation. The majority of women don’t have vaginal-only orgasms. It’s not weird, so don’t feel like you’re doing anything wrong with your girlfriend.

I sure have done so. I’m also a bisexual girl, although since I still have a penis, I don’t yet have that kind of experience on the receiving end. I like to think that I’m pretty darn good at giving it all the same. The current top comment here is pretty spot on in what I like to receive and what my partners have enjoyed.

“女孩orgasim 最好的方式来口服一个女人”

^ Haake P, Exton MS, Haverkamp J, 等. Absence of orgasm-induced prolactin secretion in a healthy multi-orgasmic male subject. International Journal of Impotence Research. 2002-04, 14 (2): 133–5. PMID 11979330. doi:10.1038/sj.ijir.3900823.

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首先,在许多女性的头脑里阴道性高潮的思想还在。她们即便在充分刺激阴蒂下,已经足可以达到性高潮,但还会为阴道的感觉不强烈或毫无快感而感到遗撼,甚至抑制性高潮的出现,而男子在射精的那一刹那,往往被她们认为是对阴道的最有效、最强烈的刺激,接此逻辑推理,少了这一刻性生活自然会变得“索然无味”。然而这种想法是错误的,并不是谁在承受,谁在为谁付出,只有两人同心协力,男子射精时,伴随着精液飞速的喷出、阴茎的强烈勃动以及全身肌肉的痉挛,能让女方真切地感受到性爱的全部美感和无穷的魔力,而此刻男子所表现的勃勃生机和震撼的力量,也会让女方为之心仪不已。因此,有人说,与其说精液在喷射中冲击的是女人的阴道穹窿,不如说那浓于水的男性的精华滋润的是女人整个身心的世界。

完美性交六大技巧【图】不过若你能掌握了一些技巧,还是很容易享受到完美性爱的。1.”性”与”爱”不分离  人们把男女之间的亲密接触叫做”性爱”,是因为性爱是密不可分的。4.克服”男女差距”  即使性爱再和谐的夫妻,男女差距也是存在的。只所以有的夫妻过的”性”福,有的夫妻性生活很糟糕,是因为有的夫妻懂得调节、懂得克服”男女差距”。6.接受服务和为对方服务  性爱是很美妙的事情,在性爱中,每个人都既是服务者,又是享乐者。

男人想和女人做爱要在几个小时前叫女人有个好心情,在做爱前,男人要做好一切准备工作如铺垫的东西等等,急于插入的男人注定是失败者,因为他关心的只是自己局部的快乐,却忽视了女人的感觉,而成功的性生活首先应该是让女人获得充分高潮享受的性生活。尽你一切的可能在插入之前使女人的兴奋达到忍无可忍的地步,亲吻、抚摸阴唇,阴蒂。凝结着女人对性快乐的全部希冀。女人能否获得真正的高潮,很大程度上决定于男人,有人甚至认为完全取决于男人是否关心女人。

^ 146.0 146.1 Brody S, Costa RM. Vaginal orgasm is more prevalent among women with a prominent tubercle of the upper lip. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. 2011-06, 8 (10): 2793–9. PMID 21676178. doi:10.1111/j.1743-6109.2011.02331.x.

^ Rosenbaum, TY. Pelvic floor involvement in male and female sexual dysfunction and the role of pelvic floor rehabilitation in treatment: a literature review.. The journal of sexual medicine. 2007-01, 4 (1): 4–13. PMID 17233772. doi:10.1111/j.1743-6109.2006.00393.x.

^ Hurlbert DF, Apt C. The coital alignment technique and directed masturbation: a comparative study on female orgasm. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. 1995,. 21(1) (1): 21–29. PMID 7608994. doi:10.1080/00926239508405968.

女性性高潮的持续时间可比男性长很多[62][63][93][94] ,估计平均约20秒,当中与阴道、子宫和肛门相关的骨盆区域亦会出现一系列的肌肉收缩[93]。一些女性在某些情况下可先达至高潮,其后肌肉才以大约一秒的间隔收缩,收缩强度先增加,后减少。在一些情况下,一系列规则的肌肉收缩前会额外出现几次的不规则收缩或颤动[93][95]:75。除了以上的模式之外,女性还可达至没有骨盆收缩的性高潮[96]。

在性爱生活中,不要妄想控制女人的性爱节奏,要让她在性爱中引导你的动作。还要注意的一点是不要用你的欲火一下子把她烧完。这应该是接下来你使用任何一项技巧的准则。比如在她没有主动挺起诱人的胸部之前不去碰它们;在她没有抓着你的手放在自己两腿之间之前,只在她的腰部和小腹上游弋。好吧,就算你认为自己即便不这样做也能让她达到高潮,但高手和你的区别就在这里:他们可以让一个逆来顺受的女人变成一个风情万种的床上尤物。

其次,性成熟即性经验丰富的女性无疑会给男性带来更好的性生活的体验。从性交过程来讲,跟一个有语言交流,肢体互动,眼神互动的女人来做爱,一定会比跟一个躺在床上像木鱼一样的女人要有乐趣的多,这个不用多说。从结果来讲,女人达到性高潮对男生心理上有着非常重要的意义,男人做爱,一方面是获得射精时的性快感,另一个非常重要的方面是要征服女人,而能否征服女人的判断依据就是女人是否达到了性高潮。所以,当女人取乐了自己,达到高潮的时候,同时也很大程度上就是取乐了男人。在这方面,请女人务必一定要讲实话,邀请伴侣一起探索自己的身体。因为这对于女人,男人,亲密关系都非常重要,同样重要。

^ Georgiadis J, Kortekaas R, Kuipers R, Nieuwenburg A, Pruim J, Reinders A, Holstege G. Regional cerebral blood flow changes associated with clitorally induced orgasm in healthy women. Eur J Neurosci. 2006, 24 (11): 3305–16. PMID 17156391. doi:10.1111/j.1460-9568.2006.05206.x.

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性高潮可以通过许多性活动来实现,包括阴道/肛/口交、非插入式性行为,以及自慰。亦可通过使用性玩具来实现,比如按摩棒和色情电刺激。它还可通过刺激乳头、子宫或其他性感带来得以实现,但这是较为罕见的[15][16]。除了物理上的刺激,性高潮还可通过单单的心理活动来激发(男性和女性皆有的梦遗)[12][14][17],或经由性高潮控制来引发。在脊髓损伤的人之中首次发现只通过心理活动引发的性高潮[17]。虽然脊髓损伤后,当事人的性功能往往受到一定影响,但这种损伤并不会剥夺性感觉,比如性唤起和性欲望[17]。

和我原来的认知差不多吧…因为个人属于平等看待知识喜欢尝试的类型,很多认知很早就纠正过了,不过通过阅读习得那点倒是第一次见到,仔细回想一下似乎很多知识确实都是最终在阅读里落定,其他媒介元素太多容易分散注意力。然后有个观点表示非常赞同,“书”最有价值的还是读者评论,一个点所发散出去的线,不仅有价值,还很有意思,能引发很多思考也能填补思考漏洞。最后回到原题…性生活里磨合和耐心和在所有事情里一样重要,所以觉得感情作为前提很重要,面对喜欢的人才会有心情耐心探索,然后就我个人来说长久的陪伴确实是最高的催情剂,性别啊年龄啊都无所谓,如果有一个人愿意永远不离不弃,我就愿意为他(她)付出一切。

还有一种对于性高潮的描述类型则相对少见,但意义却不容小觑,因为从中可以窥知在科学尚未昌明的岁月人们是如何理解男女性高潮体验的不同的。其中比较有名的当属奥维德名作《变形记》(不是卡夫卡的!)中的一段:宙斯和赫拉争论男人和女人谁在床上更享受,于是找来曾以女身生活过7年(男女通吃的),最有发言权的忒瑞西阿斯作裁决。宙斯与赫拉争吵的关键原因是宙斯婚后不信守结婚誓言到处乱搞,还偷窥女神雅典娜洗澡。妻子赫拉早就不满,但没有想到宙斯不以为耻反以为荣,嘴贱地说男女交欢的话爽的肯定是女方,所以女人还有什么好抱怨的呢?赫拉于是就怒了。忒瑞西阿斯高贵冷艳地评论道:“男人的快感与女人相比实在是淡而无味。如果性快感为十,那么女人占其九,男人只占其一。” 忒瑞西阿斯因为同意了宙斯的观点而惹怒了赫拉,赫拉戳瞎了不会说话的忒瑞西阿斯的双眼。事后宙斯感到无比内疚赋予了忒瑞西阿斯预见未来的超能力。

  有些男士喜欢:“如果我刚刚为我深深着迷的女人完成口交,并不一定表示现在她必须为我口交。这纯粹是自发性的行为,我口交是因为我觉得享受,而且我喜欢让她感受到高潮的莫大欢愉。如果她也自愿来吸吮我,那真的是难以言传的战栗,尤其在我知道她喜欢这样做,喜欢把我的阴茎和我的精液含在她嘴里,而不只是为了讨好我。但是我很怀疑是否大多数女人真的喜爱为男人口交,就像男人真的喜爱为女人口交一样,有相同的冲动和嗜好。”

你知道男性一生中有多少个小时的性高潮吗?相信大多数人都未必知道这些知识,据最新消息报道称,男人一生只有16个小时的性高潮.接下来,我们就跟随专家一起去了解性方面的相关知识吧! 男人一生亟亟寻求的,不外乎钱.权和性,而钱和权很大程度上也是为了性,所以夸张的话,就可以说男人一生的最大追求是性. 可以说,只有性才能让男人真正有兴趣,也只有性才能调动起男人战斗欲与征服欲,真正激发男人的聪明才智,性得到了满足,男人会很开心,意气风发,如果性得不到满足,男人就会压抑.他日夜想着,只为了获得那一刻的欢愉,他为

在我这些年大量的持续的实践中,除了认定阴蒂是女人通向天堂的一个开关外,还发现了在去往天堂的过程中,冲撞整体而言是不如揉捻的,每一次进入后的摩擦位置和程度至关重要,在某些体位下是更容易让自己还未掌握技巧的女孩儿高潮的,比如说让她趴在床上,两腿略微并住,我趴在她身上,腰部用力,用阴茎紧紧地抵住他的G点范围,在抽插的同时,捻压她的阴道前壁,甚至不用抽插,直接用阴茎在她的阴道里揉搓,这时如果配合一点手上的小动作,揉搓乳房、攻击阴蒂,那么就会感受到她不自觉的收缩,或者说:「挤压」,她会通过自己的挤压让我的攻击卓有成效,让双方高效的获得极大的快感……通常这个过程会很快,女孩儿高潮来的,我也射到快,所以看当天的状态来决定是先让她高潮连连,再开始戏耍,或是先戏耍一番,再高潮结束……

  如果不分原因、不计后果地广泛给女性实施这一手术,势必会形成新的问题,如果术后女人感到那是对生活的一种折磨怎么办?有人就曾体验过骑车时那里被反复摩擦刺激时出现的难以忍受的感觉,因为阴蒂头被完全暴露在外面。那种摩擦的酸麻不适感很不好,何况还是在公众场合,你不能总是去厕所来调整内衣和外裤对它的摩擦作用吧?那将是一个痛苦的开始,也许会有人起诉医院毁了她美好的生活呢。因为很难保证不会发生这种情形,所以这是她们提出来的不一定要做这个手术的原因之一。

^ Reich, Wilhelm. Children of the Future: On the Prevention of Sexual Pathology. New York: Farrar Straus and Giroux. 1984: 142. 1949: The statement that the girl’s clitoral masturbation is normal is also due to the then prevalent psychoanalytic concept that the little girl had no vaginal genatility. The lack of vaginal genatility was later shown by sex-economy to be an artifact of our culture, which suppresses genitality completely and instills castration anxiety not only in the boy but also in the girl. This creates a true secondary drive in the form of penis envy and predominance of clitoral genitality. Psychoanalytic theory mistook these artificial secondary drives for primary, natural functions.

在对男性的整个性器进行了不同速度的刺激之后,就是刺激睾丸的最佳时机了。这个时候,将你的手滑向他的睾丸,一定要轻柔地将它们抓在手指中,慢慢向外拉。如果它们大得像洋鸡蛋,在手中掂上几次,告诉他它们有多重,有多性感。不管你怎么做,千万别去挤捏它们!否则浪漫的一天还没开始就可能结束。你可能会注意到他的鸡蛋有一只比另一只垂得更低,这是正常情况,当你的手握正睾丸而且感觉舒服后,慢慢将它往阴茎方向推,通常可以推至一半的高度,这一方面也取决于他阴囊的大小。

实际上,女方的重心除了落在男人两侧的髋骨上,还有一点,就是男人的JJ上,这是这个姿势之所以有效的关键。重力让女人的耻骨自然而然地紧紧压在男人的JJ根部,这样她的阴蒂就受到了极大的挤压和摩擦,比起平躺或者坐姿来,这种挤压是无须双方刻意去用力的,所以显得轻松些。而你们只需要保持相对运动就行了,像上面说的对面站立姿势一样,可以由男人抓住女方的臀部或大腿前后抽送或者转圈;也可以由女方主导,自己以双手和双腿为支撑,前后左右摇摆运动。

如果你彻底的试验这些步骤,逐渐地,会有一种最适合自己的方式,最后将因此而达到高潮。一旦你知道那是什么样的感觉,就会了解你想要达到的那种刺激的程度。你应该教导伴侣怎么进行,男人不是天生的做爱高手,他们不会生来就知道,女人喜欢什么样的感觉。况且每个女人各有不同的感受,即使用同样的方法,不见得对其他人也有效。引导伴侣找出最让你满足的方式,同样的,也要求他们指引你,如果你觉得不好意思说出来,只需握住对方的手并且引导对方即可。不要害怕这样做会致使伴侣“性”趣大减,相反的,由于你如此地享受性爱,并且很想和他分享,他会因此而感到无比的兴奋。

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和男朋友性爱经验近2年,逐渐发展到能通过各种酝酿,最后通过女上位达到潮吹。后来偶然机会看到这本只有2页的宝典,体会到所谓挤字的精髓。于是在今早的性爱中,男朋友用手指刺激我G点时,下意识试了下运用PC肌往外挤,哪知就伴随他手指抽出的瞬间潮吹了,而且是有史以来第一次喷射出来!之前女上位的潮吹,还只是一阵液体喷涌而出,一次能有个3-4次不等;今天的手指潮吹,竟然可以真的如小水柱一般喷射而出,而且只要他不停我就能继续的架势,起码来了十来次~oh my god!太性福了!

自慰有被称作手淫,是指一个人的性爱.今日有人做了一个调差,发现女性自慰时的性高潮,比两个人做爱时候的性高潮比率要高.这是什么原因呢?为什么手淫比做爱更易性高潮?针对这个,我们来具体关注一下. 为何女人手淫更容易性高潮 我们的调查表明,95%的女性自慰.海蒂报告认为,对于女性来说,自慰是获得高潮的最佳方式,在85%的情况下都能达到高潮;而与男性性交,3次中有那么1次.85%与33%,这个对比足以让我们建议那些缺少性高潮的女性,不妨采取自慰的方式满足自己. 然而,大多数女性却认为自慰是羞耻的.有些女

另外,早期的各类研究提示由于男性的性高潮持续时间远比女性来得短,PET扫描难以观测性高潮对于脑部的影响。不过荷兰格罗宁根大学的另一位神经科学教授阔特卡斯(Kortekaas)在一篇题为《Men versus women on sexual brain function: prominent differences during tactile genital stimulation, but not during orgasm.》的论文中认为“性高潮时两性之间的共通性非常显著。基于这些结果我们的结论是:男女在性行为之中的脑部反应差异主要与性刺激平台期有关,而与高潮期无关。”

布罗迪·科斯塔(Brody Costa)等人认为阴道高潮的“连贯性”跟在儿童期/青春期时遭告知“阴道是女性性高潮的重要区域”的经历有关。研究者曾提出的阴道高潮因子还包括女性在进行阴茎-阴道交时对阴道的感觉的专注程度、性交持续时间,以及是否偏爱高于平均长度的阴茎[145]。科斯塔(Costa)认为阴道高潮在拥有唇结节(英语:Tubercle of the upper lip)的女性中更为普遍[146]。他的研究表明“相比起唇结节较不显著的一组,一个较突出和大幅向前升起的唇结节跟阴道高潮,以及过去一个月的阴道高潮连贯性是正相关的(比值比=12.3)。”然而,唇结节跟社会期望反应(social desirability responding),以及以抚慰、手淫(不论个人/伴侣、所刺激的是阴道/阴蒂,以及方式(振动器/口))达至的高潮无关[146]。

“人类女性性高潮有何功用”此一问题在研究者之间仍存有争论[130]。在性交过程中男方一旦高潮,精子便会射至阴道内,此举可能会使女方受孕,研究者们基于此对生殖和进化过程中女性性高潮的作用作出了几个假设[8][9][47][70]。其中较早期的文献提供了以下论点:女性性高潮是早期男性个体发育的副产品,男性性高潮则是一种适应方式[131]。其后研究的重心转移至父亲选择假说上,认为女性性高潮已被自然选择塑造成能令女方选择更为高品质的配偶,性高潮因此增加了与遗传品质高的男性共同繁衍后代的机会,此一理论已获得研究调查证实[132][133]。兰迪·特霍西尔(Randy Thornhill)等人的研究表明女性在与拥有低波动性不对称性(Fluctuating asymmetry,对称结构的不对称程度低)的男性伴侣性交时,达至高潮的频密度会较高[134]。

  其次,尽管随着社会的发展,性观念已经发生了深刻的变化,但是还有相当比例的女性,起码在潜意识仍然以为,她们在性生活中是处于被动状态,是在承受,在奉献,而男子只有在射精的时候,才能让她们感觉到对方在为自已沉醉、付出和奉献。然而这种想法是错误的,并不是谁在承受,谁在为谁付出,只有两人同心协力。男子射精时,伴随着精液飞速的喷出、阴茎的强烈勃动以及全身肌肉的痉挛,能让女方真切地感受到性爱的全部美感和无穷的魔力,而此刻男子所表现的勃勃生机和震撼的力量,也会让女方为之心仪不已。因此,有人说,与其说精液在喷射中冲击的是女人的阴道穹窿,不如说那浓于水的男性的精华滋润的是女人整个身心的世界。

“提高女性的口口相传 -如何给你的男朋友最好的头”

人类性高潮从健康的效应上有着各式各样的探讨。在性事当中有许多生理学反应,包括由促乳素令其缓和放松的状态,如同在中枢神经系统之中的若干变化(像是当边缘系统的代谢活动没有增加变化的时候,大脑皮质的代谢活动在很大部分的区域也会跟着暂时降低)[7]。在种类繁杂的性功能障碍当中,高潮障碍(英语:Anorgasmia)(anorgasmia)是其中之一。这些效应除了影响了关于性高潮在生物学与进化的功能的理论[8][9]之外,也冲击到人们文化上看待性高潮的各种观点,比如在性生活满意度上抱持的信念,认为性高潮是重要或不重要,是不是很在意频次多少、质量程度多寡[10] 等等。

^ 16.0 16.1 16.2 16.3 16.4 16.5 Komisaruk, B. R., Wise, N., Frangos, E., Liu, W.-C., Allen, K. and Brody, S. Women’s Clitoris, Vagina, and Cervix Mapped on the Sensory Cortex: fMRI Evidence. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. 2011-08-05, 8 (10): 2822–2830. PMID 21797981. doi:10.1111/j.1743-6109.2011.02388.x. (原始内容存档于2016-07-01).

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由于前面姿势半蹲位使男性补充了体力,降低了生物电槽,所以再第3个姿势。后背位使用时候,有了充足的体力,有了发力点,阴茎以80%长度进 入。坚持这种姿势2分半-4分钟,女性生物电可能由于快速的猛烈撞击,获得阴道内高潮。2分半-4分钟后,男性有效体力基本用完,需要马上补充,生物电积 累大概再40%左右。————换女性坐立位,男性躺下,女性面对面坐与上面。男性的体力槽开始恢复————生物电槽开始增长,而且是高速增长。

男女面对面站立着做,可能对于相当一部分人来说是很困难的姿势,但我觉得一旦掌握了技巧,也是非常受用的。这个姿势我记得在一个朋友的帖子里探讨过,当时我写过具体的要领,这里就再总结一下。 对面站立着做,我是从野战里学会的,后来引申到室内做同样爽,甚至在床上也可以用到。一般来说,这种姿势两个人身高差距不大要容易一些,但就算差距大一点,也可以通过垫高女方脚底来弥补,比如站在台阶上、大抱枕上等等,关键是要站得稳当,以免影响后面的动作甚至出现意外。基本姿势是:男方的两腿分开在女方的身体两侧,与她站在同一水平线上,双膝微微弯曲下蹲,男女双方都要向前送胯,以便阴部结合。由于上体后倾,为了保持身体平衡,女方双手抓紧男方的肩膀,或者一手抓他肩膀一手扶墙;而男方则双手抱住女人的髋部,或者腾出一手抚摸她乳房。

在阴蒂被爱抚的过程中,大脑中负责处理恐惧、不安与动作协调的脑域开始放松,机能下降。这种状况在达到性高潮的瞬间变得最为显著,女性的情感中枢几乎完全停止,催生出一种近似昏睡的状态。于是和斯蒂格于2005年欧洲人类生殖学会大会上表示:在性高潮的瞬间,女性不存在任何情感感受。(At the moment of orgasm, women do not have any emotional feelings. )

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 我很无奈。说起来我已经试工一年挂零,成了一名超级试工员。这在海市晨报试工史上也是罕见的。当我无奈到七八分的时候,不体恤人的陶清又提出来非要当超女不可,这无异让我烦上加烦。当我无奈到十分、连活着都成了问题的时候,救命的王惠玲给我发了一则友好的短信,我心里才有了一点点宽慰。她说你猜我现在在哪里?我睡在五姨的床上,摸着我的肚皮,摸着大良的BB,好爽啊。她还说,你有空一定来武夷山玩,我太想你了。我说你不想大良吗?她回信说,对大良是爱恨交加不是想念,对你才是想念。我挺感动的。

  有些男士喜欢:“如果我刚刚为我深深着迷的女人完成口交,并不一定表示现在她必须为我口交。这纯粹是自发性的行为,我口交是因为我觉得享受,而且我喜欢让她感受到高潮的莫大欢愉。如果她也自愿来吸吮我,那真的是难以言传的战栗,尤其在我知道她喜欢这样做,喜欢把我的阴茎和我的精液含在她嘴里,而不只是为了讨好我。但是我很怀疑是否大多数女人真的喜爱为男人口交,就像男人真的喜爱为女人口交一样,有相同的冲动和嗜好。”

麦斯特与强生认为,在第一阶段中,“阴茎的附属器官会收缩,处于此阶段的男性会感到射精将要到来;射精即将发生的两三秒前,此男性并不能以任何方式阻止或控制精液的涌出。”处于第二阶段的“男性会感到在射精期间令人愉悦的肌肉收缩,他们声称自身的愉悦感与射精量成正比。”[19]他们指出男性在第二阶段跟女性的反应不同:“对于男性而言,消退期之上还有额外的不应期。”并补充说:“许多30岁以下的男性拥有频密地射精的能力以及较短的不应期,但过了30岁以后便较为少有。”麦斯特与强生把男性性高潮和射精划上等号,并认定了两次高潮之间拥有一段不应期的必要性[19]。

对于性高潮的研究,自人类有历史以来就没有间断过,无论是国内还是国外。前一阵子出品了一个非常有名的美剧《性爱大师》,就是以两位性教育研究专家的真实故事为基础搬上荧屏的广受大家好评的作品。随着科技的发展,对于性爱的研究也越来越能接近真相。2011年,美国科学家首次使用核磁共振来研究女性的性高潮,得出了那个有名的结论:女人性高潮时大脑里像点燃了一片烟花一样。由些可见女人性高潮之美,也可以预见女人性高潮的重要。

大多数男人喜欢随时触摸他们的生殖器,无论他们是否被性唤起。 女性通常不会这样做。 把阴道想象成一个“潜在的”开放,一个神奇的门,将愉快地打开宽敞的接收你,但只有你打电话后,以确保你的欢迎。 要确定她渴望通过把注意力集中在身体的其他部位 – 渴望接受你的生殖器探索 – 在背部,肩膀和手臂上接吻,脖子,胳膊,然后爱抚她的乳房。 只有在你感觉到自己已经准备好了之后,才能通过快速呼吸,潮红的皮肤,硬化的乳头,或诱人的呻吟等迹象,移动到她的阴道。 一旦你的手或嘴是在她甜蜜的蜜罐开始从外面的内部 – 外唇,阴蒂,内唇,阴道管探索它。

    至于是否具有更加具体的界定我们不得而知。根据博主自己的临床经验也的确也很难进一步界定:⑴有的人的阴蒂头完全不能暴露、肉眼根本见不到,我们说肯定属于包茎;⑵有的能够暴露1/4到3/4;⑶有的基本上可以完全暴露,属于正常。我们可以说⑵这部分属于部分包茎或包皮过长,国外只是笼统地说到“导致阴蒂包皮不同程度的不完全后退,从而限制了阴蒂头的暴露”,我们之所以提出阴蒂完全包茎、部分包茎和包皮过长的各自不同的概念,主要考虑是否需要接受手术整形。