“best oral sec +guy giving girl oral”

2. “Make me feel like you’re enjoying it. I’m already thinking this is a chore for you, so if you make me know that you’re doing this because you want to, it’ll help in every way possible.” —Jordan, 27

Unless a woman’s clitoris is close to her vaginal opening, doggy style will just be a fun position for you… while it will feel good for her, without a doubt, it will most likely not provide enough stimulation to make a woman orgasm… at least not anytime soon.

Now, many women say their best orgasms happen courtesy of the man’s tongue or hand or a vibrator. But for women desiring orgasms during intercourse, these simple variations just might allow a woman to enjoy a new erotic pleasure. Happy experimentation. Please comment on your results.

Okay, now you can masturbate. Exploring your own sexuality is one of the best ways to figure out how to orgasm. Masturbating is great for so many reasons – it’s healthy, it will make you feel good and it will teach you more about yourself, just to name a few. Don’t forget to relax and enjoy yourself – it may take a while before you get into the right groove.

Try kissing and licking anywhere between her thighs to turn her on. Move on to the clitoris, starting with gentle licking or sucking. Get her to tell you what motion feels the best, what speed and what pressure turn her on the most. Try it with a relaxed, soft tongue, and change to a firmer, pointed tongue. Some women love an up-and-down licking motion, others like it to go from side to side (like a windscreen wiper), and others still like a circular or pressing-down motion.

The clitoris is the little nub of tissue that sits outside the vagina and a few inches above it beneath the upper junction of the vaginal lips. Even vigorous prolonged intercourse seldom provides enough clitoral stimulation for orgasm. Most women really need clitoral caresses from a hand, tongue, or vibrator. Unless she specifically requests intense touch, caress her clitoris very gently. It contains as many touch-sensitive nerves as the head of the penis, but they’re packed into an organ only about one-tenth the size. As a result, even gentle caresses may feel too intense for many women. Discuss this. If she doesn’t enjoy direct clitoral touch, caress around her clitoris.

Below are some items on how to help a woman get an orgasm. Always note, however, that getting a woman to enjoy sex is not the same thing as getting her to have an orgasm, since women can enjoy other things with sex more than the orgasm. Thus, if a man wants his woman to be happy, it may be more important to provide closeness and love rather than orgasm. Most women are not satisfied if the man enters them too early, but that is not because of lack of orgasm but because of lack of love and intimacy.

One mistake many guys make time and time again is that they often assume oral sex is virtually the same thing as standard intercourse. DO NOT simply thrust your tongue in and out of the vagina as you would with your penis. The tongue does not provide enough friction and is not long or thick enough to make this pleasurable. In general, stick to areas that are easier to access—like the clitoris. The clitoris is a woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone and, when stimulated correctly, leads to mind-blowing orgasms. Tease her for a while by lightly circling it with your tongue. Then try taking it into your mouth and gently sucking on it while softly flicking your tongue over the area—almost like a French kiss.

But because you are flat on the bed, you get very different sensations from any rear-entry position where your bottom is up in the air. And you can slip your hand in between the bed and your body and rub your own clitoris.

Like most things in life, there’s more to the clitoris than meets the eye. It’s more like an iceberg than a button. The little pea-shaped bulb that pops out over top of the vaginal opening is actually just the tip of it. It’s actually more of a wishbone shape, with two shafts that run down either side between her opening and hip creases. Rhythmically massaging this area before or while using your tongue is a great way stimulate blood flow and add to the fullness of sensation.

Wow I have a girl friend that we have good sex . She had started taking some anti de present meds and after that it was impossible to make her come . I tryed a lot and talking some gentle spanks she likes , kissing her pussy , vibraters, bath tub , rubbing my cock all over her .i tryed a lot of new and all the past things she likes . After the med changes !!! All good . Her new doc have her some new mess for hormones inc testosterone . Women girls need that to . Or you may have the wrong partners . Keep it up 🙂 and take your time don’t try to hard or talk yourself onto you never will. Try some adult movies ??? I have no idea about you but I hope I can or have given you some new ideas !!

The difference between people who are good in bed and people who are not isn’t that the people who are good in bed have learned all the techniques or discovered the secret. The people who are good in bed know that everyone is different, so the way you please a person is to listen to that person, talk about that person’s turn-ons and fantasies, and above all else, pay attention to the way that person’s body responds.

You’ve gotta learn how to push her buttons, which is actually really easy when you know know. There’s an awesome guide called Revolutionary Sex that shows you everything and the techniques work so damn good. Here’s the guide: Revolutionary Sex – Give Her The Best Orgasm of Her Life

Women can sustain orgasms of length and intensity that men will simply never know (caveat: men can also become multi-orgasmic with a little bit of effort, but women still get the sweeter end of the stick in terms of orgasmic/peak arousal). So if you’re ignoring it, or are simply uninformed, you’re missing out on a massive treasure chest of sexual experience.

i have been looking up on this for a while as i feel really bad my wife can not orgasam during sex i would love to be able to find her g spot im really good with her clit as this is the only way she can cum. so i have set my self a little task as we are going to a ball this friday and im hoping to try this as she will feel a little more relaxed as she dosent like me fingering her so what i have learnd so far.

This is all great advice but I’m just here to say that none of this will work if you don’t know what she likes. Pay attention to how she masturbates. For example, I will never get off if you go in up and down motions. It HAS to be side to side. And for some reason even after I repeatedly tell my partners what I need and physically move their heads while their down there they can’t fucking get it right. Even after years in relationships. I have only had two orgasms from oral in 10 years of sexual experience and a lot of partners. Because no one listens to me. Just listen to me for the love of God!!!!

– The G-spot. The G-spot is a spongy part of the vagina located on the anterior part of the vagina or the upper part if the woman is lying down. If stimulated properly, it provides the most mind-blowing of all orgasms. However there is no uniform way to stimulate this, and it can vary per person. [Read: How to tingle her G-spot without using a flashlight]

I would like to ADD, it would be great if there was more porn for women, like girl friendly stuff. Dont take the men out of porn but have hotter, younger guys with less body hair and obviously nice looking penises.

For better sex, the website www.massivestayingpower.com may be helpful if you need more information on how to reach orgasm during intercourse, which often depends on the man’s ability to engage in long lasting thrusting.

Although we will never be perfect in accounting for every possible diversity, there is much we can learn from each other that can change the way we interact and communicate our ideas with less potential for discriminatory interpretation and causing heterosexist repercussions, such as those I previously described in my other comment. Speaking to your initial point, it doesn’t matter whether or not the article was written for a majority of heterosexual students. (Does that mean that discrimination is OK as long as you don’t discriminate on the “in-group”/majority group, compared to the “out-group”/minority group?) The actual article is unremarkable to this discussion insofar as there is still a belief that, as you state, “The title…“A Guy’s Guide to Oral Sex”…seems properly worded enough…because that’s what the article is about” continues to be the current position. That is, in fact, not what the article is geared up to be to many people. Therefore, in the context of this discussion and article, it is important to recognize that not only guys give oral sex to women (lesbian women, etc.), and that not all guys that are giving oral sex are giving such to women (gay men, etc.) A more appropriate title would be “Guide to Giving Women Oral Sex” where it does not assume that the person giving oral sex is neither a man, woman, nor anything in between, and does not assume that what is contained in the article is only informative to “guys”. I know quite a few lesbian women that would love to know #1-5!

All the original post does is give their honest advice and then backs it up with evidence they collected, whereas all you have done is wrote some pretty paragraphs your old teachers would be proud of in preschool and decided to be an all round ass nitpicking over terms like some form of grammar nazi mixed in with blind feminism so remember a guide doesn’t always mean a step by step that has to be followed instead of just being a compilation of advice.

Oral sex is an essential part of great foreplay, but can be a full-on sexual experience in its own right. Plus, getting her aroused orally means less pressure on you to last forever during the main event.

In the bottom third of the ellipse is the vaginal entrance. Push the tip of your tongue slightly inside. The walls of the vaginal opening are extremely sensitive, always approach them slowly and gently. The tip of your tongue, being soft and wet, should give her a feeling of pleasure.

Michael Castleman’s articles are always well researched at the same time interesting.I found a few things that i dont know myself as a girl.I am humbled by the rich information found in this page not only in the original post but even in the comments left by few others.

It was once assumed that women didn’t have orgasms, or at least that they were very different from what men experienced. Thankfully, nowadays we know that women have all the equipment required to produce sexual pleasure – and that there’s nothing wrong with enjoying it. Still, most statistics estimate that about 30 percent of women have trouble achieving orgasm. 

@Danny, I don’t understand how Austin’s original post merits such a mocking, condescending response. Although I did not have as strong a reaction to this article as Austin did, I understand and sympathize with his argument. Austin’s point may seem overly-sensitive to you, but both of you bring different experiences to your reading. I find it tasteless to attack his criticisms, especially in the dehumanizing way by which you do it.

Deciding whether to have oral sex is a very personal thing. The main things to consider are whether it feels right, and whether you and your partner are both sure. Our article ‘Am I ready for sex?’ will help you think about this.

“oral girlfriends _going down on a woman”

There are two issues here. The first is neck ache, which can be handled by switching position. Having her sit on a couch or the side of the bed with you between her legs can work. Alternatively, try putting a pillow under her butt to raise the area slightly.

You said she feels like she has to pee? Good! That means you’re hitting the right spot. You just have to keep it up. Make sure she knows that this sensation is perfectly normal, and that she needs to relaxy down there, instead of tighten up – I know I get too tense to vaginally orgasm!

Honestly, I think dudes (or all folks who go down on people with vaginas) are in a better position to give advice on this. I know what feels good on me, but I can only give limited information on how to do that, y’know?

Personally, it’s a very rare climax where I don’t touch clitoris or have my partner rub it. And by rare, I mean I have to be insanely turned on and not have had sex in a month or so (I go on the road for work).

“Dive into her like you’ve never tasted something as good in your life. ” golden. absolutely golden. this entire reply needs to be published in some sex bible. you nailed every part of the ideal process.

This one is particularly important for a few of reasons: (1) it has to do with giving a woman oral sex, (2) the advice comes directly from a female, and (3) that expert is an award-winner in her field named Dr. Jess O’Reilly, who dispensed this advice in a recent Reddit AMA.

Also known as the Venus Mound, the soft patch of skin above the vulva is the key to orgasm for many women, as sucking, stroking and rubbing this region also massages the shaft of her inner clitoris. While you’re going down on her, use three fingers to gently press upward on the bottom section of her Venus Mound while using her hip movements and breath patterns to guide your rhythm.

3) For the ladies: say something like “just like that” instead of “don’t stop”. Boyfriend adds – he usually just hears the word “stop” and is hardwired to move the fuck away when he hears something negative.

Theories about how to best help a woman reach orgasm are like buttholes — everyone has one, but few people have ever seen theirs in action. Some people believe they have it all figured out, even if one set of “moves” couldn’t possibly work for every woman. On the other end of the spectrum, people dismiss any attempt at research or discussion with “every woman’s different;” the “#AllLivesMatter” of sex. But one website, called OMGYES, is bravely crashing through those barriers to help lovers all over better understand, communicate and eventually bring about the Big O — and they’re doing it in a decidedly high-tech way.

Women can enjoy sex even if they do not get an orgasm. They enjoy the nearness and intimacy, the fondling and the feeling of love and desire. A request from the man that she must have an orgasm can be a problem for the woman. In spite of this, you should try to learn to satisfy her. I know of women who have left their boyfriends when they have met a man who knows the right way.

Ok this is comin from my personal experience…I persoanlly love foreplay before sex wether it be by fingers or my vibrator I usually always use my vibrator before sex and sometimes during….I too have finally experienced a g-spot orgasim many times now and the easiest way we have found that I produced one at first was with a dildo, goin in and out almost at an upward angle toward the g-spot area and not too deep tho the g-spot is not that far in…Now I am able to produce one with my husband as well inside me both him on top and myself on top as well….I recomend experimenting if the two of you are comfortable with each other I would try it out….You can do a search on g-spot and it will give you some info almost a walkthrough on maybe gettin there and how to go about it…..Or even buy a penis ring with a vibrator on it so while you are having sex she will have clitoral stimulation as well……..I persoanlly dont think there is nothing wrong with makin a girl cum before sex I think it makes the joy of sex much better!!! But I do think you need to tell her to experiment with her self as well its hard for you as a man to know what to do to her if she herself really does not know what she likes!!!! Good luck

You might want to fact-check that lol. I know you’re wrong, and you posted this 2 years ago, so perhaps you know better now too but holy shit haha. How could possibly have ever thought that? Porn is a big industry consisting of many big companies that would be…ya know…torn apart by their executives and performers being put in prison for very long periods of time, if what you said were true. Nope, sorry, porn is a legitimate industry, like anything else. Porn actresses are no more forced into performing in porn movies than regular actresses are forced into performing in regular movies.

Don’t forget the power of kisses and caresses: Kisses and caresses go a long way to keep the desire within you at a peak during your lovemaking session. Kissing and caressing your partner makes sure that you both are stimulated enough to move deep into the act. Also read types of kisses – how many have you tried.

As you’re telling her your plans, nibble her ears and pull her hair backwards to expose her neck. Caress, kiss and bite it and put a hand down her knickers to make fleeting contact. Don’t leave your hand down there long. Grope her thighs and don’t be afraid to be strong and assertive – if she knows you’re in charge she won’t know what to expect. Pay her breasts some attention. Leave her bra on to begin with and unveil one nipple at a time, always leaving her wanting more. You’ll know when you’re achieving this, because she’ll try and put your head and your hands where she wants them.

We seek voluntary translators who are interested in translating Web4Health to new languages. We can provide the servers, and pay you 50 % of the income from ads on pages, which you have translated. We are especially interested in translators from German To English, From German, Swedish or English to French, Spanish, Italian, Greek, Finnish, Polish, Farsi, Russian.

Every week, we scour the city to find the best bars our capital has to offer. Whether you’re a cocktail kind of guy, or a man who enjoys a decent draft beer, there’s a GQ-worthy drinking spot to suit every taste.

I was sort of a late-bloomer to the whole O thing. And at first, I wasn’t even very good at getting myself off (like the plateau thing your GF describes). But it’s like riding a bicycle (horrible metaphor, yes). Once you know how, you just can.

As she becomes more aroused, her clitoris becomes larger and goes through a number of changes that cause the angle of the clitoral body to change. Such changes are useful signs for a man aiming to make a woman come quickly and easily – they can be the clues to what to do next in the process of sexual arousal.

Pleasing a woman is difficult according to most men! No one really knows what a woman wants or likes, do they? And what makes it complicated is what she wants once, she may not want the second time around. Now, when things are so complex, how does a man know how to please his woman in bed? Well, the secret is that the first organ that needs to be stimulated is her brain.

There has been a lot of new research on orgasm the past few years about the female orgasm, says Garcia. “We now understand that orgasm is a both a biological and psychosocial experience.  Studies have shown that psychological state, including whether someone is distracted or if they feel ashamed about engaging in sex in the first place (e.g., the sexual double standard), might limit the ability to experience orgasm,” says Garcia.

And of course, who wouldn’t enjoy the sight of a horny, moaning woman helpless at the mercy of your fingers? By making sure she’s horny, you easily play her like a piano. [Read: 25 sex questions to ask a girl and make her instantly wet]

For more articles on sexual health, check out our sexual health section. Follow us on Facebook and Twitter for all the latest updates! For daily free health tips, sign up for our newsletter. And to join discussions on health topics of your choice, visit our forum.

That said, the tip of the clitoris is definitely a magic sweet spot. It’s slightly cloaked by a protective hood, so when you’re ready to really turn it up (generally at least 5-10 minutes into it), you’ll want to pull that back. There are two most comfortable ways to do this:

Since we dont talk about it like guys, I do think its important to hear what works for other gurls. I dont have any problems now but when I first started I couldnt orgasm whenever I wanted but after learning a few techniques that worked and getting my mind on the right things I havent had a problem since. I agree with watching porn, it can be a big help but its not for everyone, and toys are the same but a dildo or a vibrator can rally make orgasming easier and better. Its not as hard as you think to get a vibrator so if you want one I would do it because of the sensations you can feel from them.

Men, do not underestimate the amount of razor stubble on your face and how this feels. If a man has not had a shave in over 8 hours, his razor stubble could approximate the grain of 120 grit sandpaper, which is pretty abrasive. Sometimes a little pressure from the chin or upper lip can feel nice, but not if you’re exfoliating the top layer of musocal tissue. If you think back to the ice-cream example, it may help you remember: while eating an ice-cream cone, you wouldn’t stick your chin in it. if you have razor stubble, make sure it’s only lips and tongue are contacting the area.

“Do you want to be the kind of guy who gives his woman multiple,full body orgasms any and every time you want. It doesn’t matter what size you are,how long you can last in bed or even if you have hard time getting or keeping an erection.If you are serious about giving a woman the most pleasurable orgasm filled experiences of her entire life then I want to show you how. In order to last in my business Ive got to be able to make any woman come,you need to be able to do it every time without excuses and you need to know a lots of different ways to do it.During my time in the business I spent all of my time doing 1 of 3 things: working.exercising and learning new and different ways to give women orgasms

Sexuality authorities also encourage couples to let go of the idea that women “should” have orgasms during intercourse. They encourage men to help women to orgasm using their fingers, hand, tongue, or a vibrator or other sex toys.

We all like being good at things. (Remember how awesome it felt to get a gold star on that fourth-grade math test?) That sentiment also applies to sex: Being told how good you are at giving head is a pretty big ego boost.

“how to give him the best oral _oral sax”

#3 Know how and where she likes to be touched. Girls who touch themselves would know the perfect formula on reaching an orgasm in the most enjoyable way they can. This is an important clue to understanding how to finger a girl that most people overlook!

Congratulations. You found the G-spot. In cases like this, there’s a lot more to it than that. Don’t underestimate the emotional situation. If you are making her feel inadequate, you are undermining the whole thing. If you stop concentrating on your own enjoyment because you’re OBSESSED with making her come, then you’re denying her the pleasure of pleasing you. Don’t be a freak about it.

Nice to see a answer on female orgasms that includes the fact the Clitoris actually extends down and around the vagina and lower portion of the anus. So many assume the Clit and Vagina are separate entities when they are actually as you said “as a network of nerves and muscles”. I’m always blown away how many females don’t know their own anatomy and how it works. Many miss out on great sex because of this.

We’ll tell you what gives. While tons of people like to brag that they are gifted when it comes to pleasuring a woman with oral sex, they probably aren’t. And to make matters worse, a lot of us are too embarrassed to call the shots and guide someone when they are down there. Nope, we grin and bear it and most of the time even give the person a pat on the back for their efforts. Awkward.

Men, do not underestimate the amount of razor stubble on your face and how this feels. If a man has not had a shave in over 8 hours, his razor stubble could approximate the grain of 120 grit sandpaper, which is pretty abrasive. Sometimes a little pressure from the chin or upper lip can feel nice, but not if you’re exfoliating the top layer of musocal tissue. If you think back to the ice-cream example, it may help you remember: while eating an ice-cream cone, you wouldn’t stick your chin in it. So if you have razor stubble, make sure it’s only lips and tongue are contacting the area.

I tested every trick and technique I learned on many different types of women.From young rich college co-eds to more mature and experienced women.From women who were shy and inexperienced to the erotically liberated freaks.I took note of the stuff that worked and dropped the shit that didnt and ended up with the list of 67 techniques that make women come.67 techniques that I used to be 100% positive my clients were satisfied every single time.”

of course there are such things G-spots, vaginal orgasms and multiple-orgasms (the kind where you shake all over and can’t walk for an hour). I’ve experienced all of them plenty of times, and there is not one time during sex without us experiencing orgasms. The secret is just to make your husband/boyfriend penetrate you deeply and keep his penis as close to your ‘front’ wall as possible, the G-spot is assumed to be near your front wall. Both of you have to be really wet, so don’t skip arousals and romantic turn-ons! I recommend gentle cullingus and even oral breast-stimulation (on the nipple, it’s AWWESOME) before ‘soft’ sex, and finally deep, breath-taking penetration. You have to try to ‘massage’ her front wall and clit with your penis first, before hard fast sex. My favorite positions are cowgirl (grrrr!), missionary with the man standing high or kneeling, the lotus (you can kiss and touch during sex), and cowboy! It’s important for your partner or yourself (whoever is on top) to try standing as high (and reach forward) as possible, it’s unbelievably orgasm-inducing. And remember to maintain eye contact, kiss and caress your partner, it’s called lovemaking after all! Believe me, guys, there’s nothing like vaginal orgasms!

Some positions will achieve orgasm quicker than others, so enjoy experimenting to see what works best for you both. You might be surprised to find that women love being on top and being made to feel in charge and in control.

Some guys will jump head first off the high dive into her lap and start lapping her up like their lives depended on it. There’s a time and a place for that, but her experience will be way more pleasurable if you start out very, very slow.

Sometimes the first thing we try when attempting to masturbate won’t work. If you haven’t been able to masturbate through fingering or intercourse, don’t feel like you’re weird. Just be open to trying new things – look into sex toys, maybe watch porn or think about different techniques. The same things don’t always work for everyone, so be open to the possibility that you might need to experiment a little.

This is a really great article on female orgasms! Don’t forget that it’s not a “problem” if you can’t climax without clitoris stimulation. The majority of women don’t have vaginal-only orgasms. It’s not weird, so don’t feel like you’re doing anything wrong with your girlfriend.

I sure have done so. I’m also a bisexual girl, although since I still have a penis, I don’t yet have that kind of experience on the receiving end. I like to think that I’m pretty darn good at giving it all the same. The current top comment here is pretty spot on in what I like to receive and what my partners have enjoyed.

“how to give a woman an orgasim -guy giving girl oral”

Stamina is the biggest key to great oral. One of the biggest secrets to being able to stick with it is to totally relax your jaw. The tendency most men have while licking is to clench up, which is what causes most guys to quickly burn out and not make it to the payoff.

You should take pleasure in feeling her body tense up, in hearing her moan, and even in her taste and smell. And why not? She’s getting hot, and it’s because of what you’re doing to her. That’s very sexy. [Read: 11 hot and easy ways for men to get way better in bed!]

I am one of the 25% who reaches orgasm through sexual stimulation the fact is my husband was humble enough to have me teach him what he has to do to make that happen and he willingly learned because other wise it was a hit and miss thing…the woman is designed by her nature to give her body to that man first and fore most if she is not secure in that relationship it won’t happen and on that note he can be very much on top of her but he must move right in rythem with her to make her climax which to say he has to move himself in enough for his testicles to hit and stay on top her clitoris for as long as she wants to pull him into her and then move his penis out far enough for the same stimulation of the inside feelingor the vagina cavity if we can call it that to have full stimulation…gauranteed an orgasm that is ultimate and yes woman are designed to have orgasm through intercourse and yes in the right position and with the right movement a man can both hit the clitoris with the scrotum and penetrate the inward area as well…if he moves in and out to fast this won’t happen and the problem is most men don’t know thi and most woman are therefore also out in the cold on it, in other words the man who can’t make a woman climax doesn’t know what he is doing and of course in a male dominated society most of them will come up with every explanation but that one…I have had 15 years of orgasms with my husband and as a result I am also one of the woman who loves sex I don’t only want sex 4 times a month like they say on average….I am sure if you work with your wife you can get her into the 25% because it is God’s intention for woman to enjoy sex Oops did I say the God word that is part of the problem the society we are living in kicked God out and woman were not designed by him to have pleasure outside of the giving of themselves…If I think about how sex makes me feel I won’t orgasm if I think about how sex makes my husband feel him feel I do every time….

Many women say that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration. So remember to take it easy and avoid being rough, especially to begin with. Look where you are going too. Gently part the outer lips of the vagina and look for the vaginal opening, and the hooded clitoris above it. These are the most pleasurable areas to stimulate, and are the key to giving the best head. Thrusting a tongue in and out of the vagina might feel good for a moment or two, but it won’t be enough to tip her over the edge.

This myth that all sexual activity must end in climax often derails people. Expectations are set up and then when they are not met, disappointment ensues. People can feel inadequate that they haven’t had an orgasm, or feel as if are not doing it right if their partner didn’t have an orgasm. If you remove all the hype around orgasm, you create an environment that facilitates relaxation and enjoyment. Sometimes it is good enough to just feel those amazing sensations without focusing on the goal!

Don’t just kiss her mouth, though. William Cane, author of The Art of Kissing (St Martin’s Griffin), surveyed 50,000 women and 96% picked a peck on the neck as the perfect warm up. But don’t overdo it, Cane says. “Slide off the lips to her neck occasionally so that her neck doesn’t become desensitised.”

I try to listen to my wife, other women willing to discuss sexuality, and I read the surveys of women, and what women sex experts write. I don’t claim to “get it” entirely—and have plenty of critics here telling me I don’t—but I try to listen to women and take them seriously.

I mean, ruined orgasms are a thing, but generally you’re right. When someone climaxes, just keep doing what you’re doing until you can feel their whole body relax (or they tell you to stop, obviously).

To really make her explode with pleasure and to give her the grand finale that she is looking for, you want to perform oral sex on her. There is no better combination of sensations than your fingers stimulating the g-spot and your mouth on her clitoris. By doing this, you will make her orgasm in no time at all and best of all, you will make her climax that much stronger and powerful. She will be helpless under your stimulation and control and she won’t be able to help herself.More — http://tinyurl.com/pqqctq4

Deciding whether to have oral sex is a very personal thing. The main things to consider are whether it feels right, and whether you and your partner are both sure. Our article ‘Am I ready for sex?’ will help you think about this.

When you get the signals that she’s turned on and getting close to orgasm, keep doing what you’re doing. So look out for heavy breathing, moaning, an increase in her lubrication, grinding or pulsing, and possibly gripping your hair or the bedclothes tightly.

Lisa Fogarty has written numerous articles for USA Today, The Stir, Opposing Views and other publications. She has covered everything from red carpet events to the discovery of toxic PCBs on school windows. She lives on Long Island, N.Y….

My recommendation is to get some good massage oil (safe for the privates) and give her a sensual massage. Start at the shoulders, work your way down the sides of her body, her tummy, to her feet and then back up to her vulva. Go slowly and make it sexy. This will turn her on and it shows you care for her. Turn her on a lot with slow sensual touch, don’t let her cum, and then have intercourse when you are both ready. Again, let the sensation build, don’t try to get her off until your into the intercourse. This should strike an orgasm during intercourse or at the very least it will be highly enjoyable for you both!

Speaking of conversations, let’s get to the difficult topic of communication during oral sex. So often people struggle to communicate about sex, particularly during sex. But how else will you know if your partner is happy with what is happening? So, in the same way you asked permission initially, now ask your partner if they are enjoying things. You can also ask if they might prefer something different, or if there is any discomfort. Don’t be afraid to gauge your partners pleasure by asking, asking, asking. Most people are very happy to engage with a lover who is so attentive and considerate.

Your partner will soon be on the verge of orgasm. The you have two options: opt for penetration if you think you can last long enough for her to come (careful – you run the risk of leaving her frustrated if you can’t make it long enough), or continue with the method described above and start stimulating the third location, which will give her immense pleasure. Either way, don’t let the excitement stop building (unfortunately, this can happen very quickly).

One other thing – I’ve been with a couple girls who needed things to be more than a bit on the rough side. I’m not suggesting your girlfriend is in that category, but rather, try to keep in mind that orgasms can be brought on by stuff other than tender coaxing.

The real value, though, is in the “touchable” videos that let you practice the techniques. They used thousands of images of each woman’s vagina to create incredibly realistic simulations that respond to the speed, pressure, location and rhythm of your fingers on a touchscreen device. As you follow the instructions and perform the techniques correctly, you’re rewarded with (again, pretty hot) audio feedback.

There are many techniques, but one good way to start is by circling her bell with two or three fingers held together. The most sensitive part of her bell is at the bottom: her clitoral glans. On some women it’s completely covered by the “hood;” on other women it’s more exposed. 

A lot of guys either skip over the oral altogether, or do it only for a few minutes. This is a big mistake (and in my opinion quite selfish). A good lover shows his partner that her pleasure is important to him.

We all like being good at things. (Remember how awesome it felt to get a gold star on that fourth-grade math test?) That sentiment also applies to sex: Being told how good you are at giving head is a pretty big ego boost.

“best way to make a woman come hard |best orgasom”

Most guys get so excited when their woman is on the verge of a climax that they would never even think of stopping or slowing down… but if you want to be one of the rare men who’s known as “the best she’s ever had” … you know you need to do something different than other guys and this is it.

We all like being good at things. (Remember how awesome it felt to get a gold star on that fourth-grade math test?) That sentiment also applies to sex: Being told how good you are at giving head is a pretty big ego boost.

#1 Hygiene – His and hers. It’s no secret that there’s sometimes a smell down there. By design, the body has scent glands in the genitals just like in the armpits. Your balls have the same thing. But society has a lot more jokes about smelly pussy than about sweaty balls, so don’t be surprised if she feels somewhat self-conscious when you go down on her.

Add a little zing to the everyday, mundane activities of life. For instance, the next time you take a shower, pull her in with you. Use soap and a loofah to create a soft-and-rough touch. The unbelievably erotic experience will leave her breathless and she will never be able to help but smile every time she showers after that! Here’s a little guide to spice things up.

Personally, it’s a very rare climax where I don’t touch clitoris or have my partner rub it. And by rare, I mean I have to be insanely turned on and not have had sex in a month or so (I go on the road for work).

Honestly Breve you are thinking way too hard about the situation at hand. Women that can cum vaginally are rare. It just isnt something that all women can due. Try having her stimulate her clit while you are pumping and she will eventually reach her climax. Another thing that is rare but can be achieved is for your women to have multiple orgasms. you simply repeat the process that i just explained. if you can beat my record i would love to hear about. My record is giving my gf 6 orgasms in one 45 minute- 1 hour session. with her playing with her clit each time of course. good luck!!

Lisa Fogarty has written numerous articles for USA Today, The Stir, Opposing Views and other publications. She has covered everything from red carpet events to the discovery of toxic PCBs on school windows. She lives on Long Island, N.Y….

Let’s get this out of the way right off the bat: Health problems can get in the way of an orgasm. So, if something more than your sex life feels off, you should visit a doctor. In absence of a medical problem, however, a woman’s orgasms, or the lack of them, go way beyond what’s going on with her body. That means the main secret to a woman’s orgasms is that they’re as individual as the woman herself. Learning to bring yourself or your female partner to a climax, therefore, can be a learning process, where’s there’s always room for improvement. Here are three common things that can boost a woman’s orgasmic potential – and that couples tend to overlook. 

Another vote for the vibrator. It’s not going to desensitize her unless she’s using it 24 hours a day for days on end. Even if she does feel a little desensitized at first, this will go away within a few hours, a day or two at the most. I would rather feel a little dull down there for a day than never have felt an orgasm in my life.

Allow her to take the lead: If you really want her to get more epic orgasms, then don’t call all the shots. Allow her to take the lead as well and control the rhythm of things. Give her a chance when you have aroused her enough to get into the act. This will really help her her best in bed and you should find the experience to be a lot more satisfying than you could possibly imagine.

As you know, foreplay can take many forms, ranging from simple loving look to a gentle touch, from a passionate kiss to a warm embrace, from gentle stroking of the skin to a vigorous massage. Most women would admit that if they are being brought to orgasm, foreplay is essential to promote desire.

Some women can only come with a clitoris, enjoying penetration afterwards, without a climax. Nothing wrong with that! If your partner prefers clitoris orgasm, don’t rush and make her scream just by touching and licking her tiny clit.

What people get off on sexually can vary as much as love songs on the radio. While some women may prefer to perform oral sex on the ladies they love, there are likely just as many who prefer to receive it. And while one can’t claim to know for sure why people get off on the things they do, here are some reasons a woman might prefer to giving over receiving:

Wear a musky scent. Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes to sexual function. A musky scent is supposed to work as it mimics testosterone and kicks our libido up a gear. If we orgasm that time around, we’re more likely to do so again when the same scent is worn because memory, scent and sex are closely connected in the brain!

I’m 17 and I can get an orgasm in like ten minutes as all I do is just rub myself and then wet my fingers and the slowly at first rub my clitoris and then kind of build up my speed when it feels right and then it feel good and your fingers automatically just keep going and you don’t want to stop so I hope this helps you kind of get an orgasm

A vaginal orgasm is a dissolving in a vague, dark generalized sensation like being swirled in a warm whirlpool. There are several different sorts of clitoral orgasms, and they are more powerful than the vaginal orgasm.Read more to know the difference between vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm at: http://bit.ly/1y0BoFm

…consult a sex therapist. Sex therapists have an excellent track record helping couples in your situation. To find one near you, visit any of these organizations online: The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists; the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, or the American Board of Sexology.

You want her to have an amazing oral orgasm, so build up to the climactic moment and use her whole body. Tell her what you’re going to do so she can anticipate it, but exert full control over how much she gets and when.

“ways to make her reach climax giving oral to female”

Ask MetaFilter is a question and answer site that covers nearly any question on earth, where members help each other solve problems. Ask MetaFilter is where thousands of life’s little questions are answered.

Please help me, i have a friend who has been married for four months now and all the while her and her husband makes love, she doesn’t get to her orgasm. What should she do? Please help as it is tearing her hubby apart.

Austin, I appreciate the effort, but you haven’t gone nearly far enough. “Guide to Giving Women Oral Sex” still builds in a gigantic host of assumptions that really only serve to marginalize various groups or individuals and substitute the constricting bonds of conventional societal mores in areas where we need to focus on inclusiveness.

There’s a whole variety of ways to lick, suck and stimulate – different people may like to give and receive oral sex in different ways. Remember that it can take a while to work out what makes someone feel good.

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.

You can also try giving her different types of orgasms, one after another. For example, you can use your mouth and tongue to give her a clitoral orgasm and then use your fingers to give her a g-spot orgasm while her clit “cools down”.

When we orgasm, it is a response of the nervous system to sexual stimulation. Both men and women can experience orgasm under certain conditions, following genital stimulation, but there is a lot of variation in people’s orgasm experiences, says Justin Garcia, Scientific Advisor for Match.com. 

The first time I vaginally orgasmed was last year, which is sad cause I’m 28. The pee feeling came. A secret: Pee BEFORE foreplay so in your mind, you know its not pee even if it feels like you might. In fact, it’s kinda hot, but you will see, it’s not pee. Also, I get pain with deep penetration so for me, the only angle I can come vaginally is if I ride on top, and kind of grind back and forth on my lover. You’ll then feel a gush, or flood. It’s totally different than a clitoral orgasm (which I’ve also learned how to squirt….again, let go of fears) which throws women off.

And regardless of the gender of your partner, keep in mind that your needs, as the “giver” need to be taken into account. Respect is a two-way street, so make your needs known: no one is a mind-reader!

Please bear in mind that – contrary to what many men think – sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman’s clitoris.

Vaginal intercourse can feel wonderful: the physical closeness, the emotional intimacy, and for many, the belief that intercourse epitomizes sex. But for women’s orgasms, the old in-out is also problematic. The best evidence suggests that only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during intercourse no matter how vigorous or prolonged it is, no matter how loving the relationship, no matter what position the lovers use, and no matter what the size of the man’s penis.

Remember, if you are generally satisfied with your sexual activity, there is no need to be dismayed by your lack of vaginal sensation or feel pressured to feel pleasure or orgasm during intercourse. Instead, if you wish, you can view and use sex play as an opportunity for you and your partner to experiment with and learn from your bodies. Either way, it is important to verbally let your partner know what turns you on the most. And remember, it may take time to learn exactly what that is.  

Understanding how to finger a girl is not easy, but with a little curious exploration of her body, you’ll discover that fingering is as complicated as a high form of art. Giving her an orgasm with your fingers requires patience, careful attention, and a little bedroom creativity.

AskMen may receive a portion of revenue if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. The links are independently placed by our Commerce team and do not influence editorial content. To find out more, please read our complete terms of use.

Some of it is out of your hands. Many women will tell you that an orgasm is nigh on impossible if she’s not in the right head space. If she’s distracted, worried or feeling uncomfortable, you can be the world’s greatest lover and still fail to give her real pleasure. So the first thing you need to do is relax and recognize that it’s not all about you. On the other hand, any man worth a place in bed beside a woman knows that he bears some responsibility for sexual satisfaction. For that part of the equation, read on for our for tips to make her orgasm.

Cunnilingus before intercourse can significantly improve both partners’ experience because, to put it simply, it’s better when it’s wetter. (Plus, she’ll probably be more inclined to reciprocate, if you’re into that sort of thing.)

“I love [giving oral sex] because it seems to be one of the most pleasurable things you can do for a woman. To hear and feel her reactions from that incredibly intimate point of contact is both bonding and super sexy, for me.” — Logan*, 22

Of course, I’m not suggesting you follow the same pattern of events every time. That was just an example. The idea is that you don’t fall into an oral routine where she’ll know what you’re going to do before you even start. Vary your movements, hold back, tease the hotspots and then let her have it. Too many people assume that the intimacy, the very notion of oral sex is enough to get a woman off with one flick of the tongue. But we’re not 17 anymore. You’ll have to be more imaginative. Trust me – it will pay off.

At this point, your vacuum of a tongue might feel a little tired. It’s expected. Combat this by throwing in some side-to-side flicks instead of up-and-down ones, as they tend to be less strenuous on the muscle.

Push your tongue gently against the bottom of the ellipse, just above the perineum. Keeping light pressure against her, slowly run your tongue up to the top, making sure to stop before you reach the clitoris. Do the same from top to bottom, letting your tongue linger at the points, pushing against them with minimal pressure. Repeat, mixing in a few kisses, and a few more sucks on the sides of her lips.

Every pussy is different. Let me repeat : EVERY PUSSY IS DIFFERENT. One style of tongue or the same place on the pussy or place on the clit is no guarantee that an orgasm will occur for every woman. Our pussies are not coke machines where you put in a quarter and an orgasm falls out. You need to explore confidently, enthusiastically, and pay attention to her requests, breathing, noises etc. Asking is good when you aren’t finding your way.

“how to give best oral to him -how to satisfy a woman”

Third, “oral sex” is problematic at best. What “sex” consists of is a complicated, difficult topic, and to presume that the activities described in the article constitute sex is to denigrate people who may choose to engage in these activities precisely because they do not see them as sex, perhaps because their religion forbids sex outside of marriage or something like this. If we just run around willy nilly calling things sex without engaging in constructive dialog about what is and isn’t sex, we pigeonhole people into viewing their activities in ways that may not be compatible with what they would prefer to believe if we had a more open, inclusive society.

Women can sustain orgasms of length and intensity that men will simply never know (caveat: men can also become multi-orgasmic with a little bit of effort, but women still get the sweeter end of the stick in terms of orgasmic/peak arousal). So if you’re ignoring it, or are simply uninformed, you’re missing out on a massive treasure chest of sexual experience.

Well, reddit is heavily male dominated. And to be fair, men with good communication skills can give very relevant information. Actually, they can give more relevant information because it can be based on their experiences with many women instead of just one woman recounting her own experiences. With how much variance there is in people with regards to sex, that’s a good thing.

Awesome Alice! Great explanation! Also, the comment before mine (posted Feb 17, 2014) adds a great deal to your explanation. I think the best orgasmic experience occur with both focused, (often deep) vaginal penetration and external clitoris stimulation.

But for women it’s usually quite different. Sometimes maintaining stimulation after orgasm can cause you to cruise right into another one. Or, you might be able to dial back stimulation for a few seconds and then ramp it right back up again to bring her to climax. I find this works relatively often.

I flat refuse to ever have that discussion with any man ever again. I dated one guy when we broke up (20 years later) and he was very willing and tried and it didn’t happen. I know that played a role in the break up. My 2nd husband, it happened every time (he died). My current man is awesomely good. He is 99% impotent from cancer treatments. He tries. Maybe if their were not 20+ years of being abused BECAUSE I couldn’t achieve orgasm (and other reasons but that was what started it and was always the truth of the matter-he felt awful because of my problem), it would happen. I don’t know. He does try. No toys. Not sure why. He will occasionally use a straight dildo but nothing that vibrates and I have them. Obviously a waste of my money. He finally asked the fatal question, and I LIED. I will NEVER hurt another human being that bad.

Also she says that if the environment was right maybe it would be possible for her to achieve a female orgasm which I do agree to a certain extent but truthfully I believe something is wrong with her vagina. She loves me to death and says sex doesn’t really bother her but to me it does and the fact that I can’t give her an orgasm makes me feel like I am a total disgrace.

The realities for women vary, says Garcia. “There are some women who never experience orgasm. There are some women who experience orgasm during masturbation but not with a partner. There are some women who experience orgasm during sexual activity but not from penetration. There are some women who only experience orgasm with penetration. There are many women who vary, from one day to another and from one partner to another, depending on other physiological and psychological factors,” Garcia says.

I’ve had many orgasms with men in the past during intercourse but only once with my husband. I am very turned on by him but for some reason no matter what I/he or we do I can’t seem to orgasm. I love my husband, am very turned on by him so what is the issue?

Your partner will soon be on the verge of orgasm. The you have two options: opt for penetration if you think you can last long enough for her to come (careful – you run the risk of leaving her frustrated if you can’t make it long enough), or continue with the method described above and start stimulating the third location, which will give her immense pleasure. Either way, don’t let the excitement stop building (unfortunately, this can happen very quickly).

The key is to have the confidence that your body is perfect, the courage to explore your individual responses on your own, the trust to share this information with a caring partner, and the humor to laugh as you learn together. You never know what the results could be!

For a woman, it’s often more important to connect emotionally before establishing a physical connect. Start off with something that you know will touch her heart. Plan a romantic evening – dinner, soft lights, music and wine – the works. Start with the wine to get her relaxed. Pull her close and let the wine and the music do the trick! Before you know it, it’ll be she who unleashes her moves on you!

Moving back down, kiss down her stomach, sucking under her navel, maybe kissing along the edge of her underwear. Let your hands roam over her butt, squeezing, maybe smacking it if she’s into that. Pull her panties down (put a pillow under her hips to help with the angle) and take a deep breath before you dive right in. If you’re doing your job well, she’ll likely be squirming a little now, maybe panting.

Oral sex, like every other thing in life, is a work of passion. You don’t have to love your mister but love his d**k . My motto is: If you’re going to do it, do it right! That means: spit, hands, tongue, lips, breast, a** and those circular weights that hang when he walks! Intimidated? Don’t be…

In all my years of performing fellatio, I have observed one constant, each man likes to be pleasured differently. What works for John doesn’t make Sean c*m and what keeps Robert’s toes curling, doesn’t phase Tom. One thing all men seem to love though,  is when you swallow their juices like unwanted gum. But there’s a long way to go before you get there.

With age comes maturity, and with maturity comes the knowledge that sex usually just isn’t as fun when only one partner gets off. One of the primary reasons men say they love giving oral sex is partly selfish: Making women feel good makes them feel good. 

Not only is the tongue the strongest muscle in the human body, but guys, you also have a lot more control over your tongue than you do over your penis, allowing you to apply direct pressure to specific parts of the vagina. It’s crucial to vary the pressure of your tongue once you finally move toward your target. Use a broad, flat tongue to fully cover the vagina—this will apply gentle titillating pressure and will help lube up the area with saliva. For more intense pressure of specific arousal spots, like the clitoris, use a firm pointed tongue to circle and flick.

One mistake many guys make time and time again is that they often assume oral sex is virtually the same thing as standard intercourse. DO NOT simply thrust your tongue in and out of the vagina as you would with your penis. The tongue does not provide enough friction and is not long or thick enough to make this pleasurable. In general, stick to areas that are easier to access—like the clitoris. The clitoris is a woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone and, when stimulated correctly, leads to mind-blowing orgasms. Tease her for a while by lightly circling it with your tongue. Then try taking it into your mouth and gently sucking on it while softly flicking your tongue over the area—almost like a French kiss.

If you are expecting to give your woman an orgasm through penetration, then you must get her aroused first and foremost. Foreplay is crucial to the g-spot orgasm and this is what you have to focus on the most here. Although the clitoris does bring her satisfaction, you need to focus on the g-spot if you want to make her orgasm during intercourse. As you get her aroused during foreplay, this increases blood flow to the g-spot, making it bigger and more engorged. This makes it easier for you to hit during sex.MORE AT — http://tinyurl.com/j68s5dm

Hi, I’m Elizabeth! About 5mins ago, I orgasmed for my first time like 5 times!!The method I used was easy! First I got used to it by spitting on my fingers and putting them down there so it would get wet(you can also use water!) Next, I took my pointer finger and you will feel a little circle ball thing. Put your fingers just above it and rub with your pointer finger back and forth really fast. Suddenly, you will feel an amazing ticklish feeling where your clitoris (the circle ball thingy) is, keep rubbing, trust me, your lower abdomen will feel great! Now, concentrate on the ticklish feeling, and think about the person you would like to have sex with, keep rubbing, imagine you and the other person having sex. Suddenly, you will feel an explosion of awesomeness in your stomach and vagina! Your body will shake the longer and faster you rub. You will know when to stop, just don’t rub for too long after you get the ticklish feeling!

And over the last 10 years or so, I’ve made somewhere between 20 and 30 women have multiple orgasms in just a few minutes… (I’m not a male gigolo; just a very horny man in Miami, a city with plenty of “resources” in the female department).

I mean, ruined orgasms are a thing, but generally you’re right. When someone climaxes, just keep doing what you’re doing until you can feel their whole body relax (or they tell you to stop, obviously).

im not sure about this explaination, but i think its important for girls to know that the inside of their vagina, the hole,, the part where there cervix hangs down and connects does get simulateed from the clitoris. NOT only does it get simulated seperatly, but when engorgered with blood, ridges inside become more pronouce and provide a greater feeling for the penis. this provides great feeling and much different oragasmic feeling from the outside of the clitoris. NOT all women may experience, i had not until i was in my 30’s. For those that do, it is well worth it. I perfer this to a clitorial stimulation. SEX is quicker, faster, and this is one thing I cant give myself.

Lena Dunham Continues To Open Up About Recent Hysterectomy: ‘Your Body Failing You Is A Loss That’s Hard To Explain’U.S. Figure Skater Adam Rippon Used To Only Eat ‘Three Pieces Of Bread’ A DayOlympian Adam Rippon Dedicates His Medal To His Mom… But Mainly Reese Witherspoon!Aly Raisman Flips A Middle Finger To Larry Nassar By Posing Nude For An Empowering AF Sports Illustrated Photoshoot — LOOK!INSPIRING!!! 🙌So Sad — Former NBA Player Rasual Butler & His Wife Leah LaBelle Killed In A Car CrashWhen We Have The Gym To Ourselves…Logan Paul Is Back! Should He Stay? Plus Harry Styles Better Not Mess This Up! AND…Demi Lovato’s Upcoming Tour Will Offer Therapy Sessions Before Shows!Things Have Gotten Worse. But We’ve Gotten Better! | Dealing With AnxietyLewis Hamilton Does Not Want You To Crap In His Bathroom, According To Ex-Girlfriend!We Love You, But Because Of Our Anxiety And Addiction….Khloé Kardashian Shares A Throwback Pic To Reflect On When She Was ‘Unhealthy Mentally’ & ‘Physically’Caitlyn Jenner Confronts Piers Morgan Over ‘Disrespectful’ Question About Her TransitionKhloé Kardashian Spills ALL On Ellen About Her Pregnancy & Romance With Tristan Thompson!Sam Smith Opens Up About His Past Obsession With His Weight — ‘My Body Image Is Always Going To Be An Issue’Mama June Has The Diet Tips You’ve Always Craved — Like Sleeping Late So You Skip Breakfast!Do U Want To Lose Weight? Watch THIS!Dr. Phil Responds To Accusations Of Show Staff Giving Known Addicts Drugs & Alcohol Luann de Lesseps Is Heading To Rehab Following Messy Palm Beach ArrestBombshell Report Claims Dr. Phil Provided His Addicted Guests With Drugs & Alcohol!Julianne Hough Delivers Inspiring Message About Finding Body Confidence After Being Called ‘Fat’ On SetGay Pro-Wrestler Says Masculine Shaming From LGBT Community Kept Him In The Closet Khloé Kardashian Slams Haters Criticizing Her For Working Out While Pregnant!Work Hard And Make It Fun!Merry Christmas, Friends!!Tristan Thompson Gushes About GF Khloé Kardashian Amid Her Pregnancy Reveal: ‘Girl You Look Better Now’Andrew Garfield Candidly Discusses His Relationship With Drugs — Says There’s So Much ‘Stigma’ Surrounding The Word!Aaron Carter Always Thought He Would ‘Die By 30’ — Even When He Was A Young KidJimmy Kimmel Returns To Late Night With His Son Billy For An Emotional Plea To Save Children’s Health Care — Watch!Fergie Gets Real About Just How Bad Her Crystal Meth Addiction Was — Says She ‘Was Hallucinating On A Daily Basis’Disgraced Doctor Larry Nassar’s Years Of Sexual Abuse Left Olympian McKayla Maroney ‘Deeply Depressed’ & ‘At Times Suicidal’Gwyneth Paltrow Blasted For ‘Extremely Damaging’ Weight Loss Advice On GoopBeyoncé Makes A Surprise Appearance To Honor Colin Kaepernick With Sports Illustrated’s Muhammad Ali Legacy Award!Surviving And THRIVING During The Holidays! For Us And For YOU! Conan O’Brien Actually Had A Segment Called ‘Creepy Matt Lauer’ During The Sochi Olympics — Watch!Helping Mom To Be Healthier!!!Fuck Trump! Fuck Trump! Fuck Trump!!!Donald Trump SLAMS ‘Poor Man’s Version Of Don King’ AKA LaVar Ball In Another Rant Against Him — Along With More Commentary About The NFL!Dog The Bounty Hunter Shares Update On His Wife’s Cancer Battle

Wow.. Thanks for your piece of advice here….. I’ve not tried any though but i’m going to and hopefully it works…. My problem is that with a condom i can last up to 1 hour but without i can’t boast of 5mins… I wonder if you can help me?

Once you have found the right spot, women need repeated stimulation in the same area in order to reach orgasm. Remember that orgasm alone should not be the only focus of oral sex. Heightened arousal, lubrication, and pleasurable sensations are all important whether or not she reaches orgasm. Because good oral sex means spending a little time downstairs, make sure to find yourself a comfortable position that you can maintain for at least ten minutes. Don’t just lick for one minute then move on. If the position she prefers is too hard on your neck, try lifting her hips up by placing a pillow underneath them, or by having her on her side and resting your head on the inside of her thigh. Also, you do not have to tolerate being suffocated or having your head squeezed by her legs, so use your hands on the inside of her thighs to remind her if needed.

For more articles on sexual health, check out our sexual health section. Follow us on Facebook and Twitter for all the latest updates! For daily free health tips, sign up for our newsletter. And to join discussions on health topics of your choice, visit our forum.

Pleasing a woman is difficult according to most men! No one really knows what a woman wants or likes, do they? And what makes it complicated is what she wants once, she may not want the second time around. Now, when things are so complex, how does a man know how to please his woman in bed? Well, the secret is that the first organ that needs to be stimulated is her brain.

There has been a lot of new research on orgasm the past few years about the female orgasm, says Garcia. “We now understand that orgasm is a both a biological and psychosocial experience.  Studies have shown that psychological state, including whether someone is distracted or if they feel ashamed about engaging in sex in the first place (e.g., the sexual double standard), might limit the ability to experience orgasm,” says Garcia.

“best way for a woman to have an orgasam _how to make her orgasim fast”

Of course, I’m not suggesting you follow the same pattern of events every time. That was just an example. The idea is that you don’t fall into an oral routine where she’ll know what you’re going to do before you even start. Vary your movements, hold back, tease hotspots and then let her have it. Too many people assume that the intimacy, the very notion of oral sex is enough to get a woman off with one flick of the tongue. But we’re not 17 anymore. You’ll have to be more imaginative. Trust me – it will pay off.

Writer based in the Philadelphia area. Person who really loves her dog and watching cooking shows. Check out my writing on Thought Catalog and follow me on Facebook! Connect with me and submit your work on Collective World.

I am one of the 25% who reaches orgasm through sexual stimulation the fact is my husband was humble enough to have me teach him what he has to do to make that happen and he willingly learned because other wise it was a hit and miss thing…the woman is designed by her nature to give her body to that man first and fore most if she is not secure in that relationship it won’t happen and on that note he can be very much on top of her but he must move right in rythem with her to make her climax which to say he has to move himself in enough for his testicles to hit and stay on top her clitoris for as long as she wants to pull him into her and then move his penis out far enough for the same stimulation of the inside feelingor the vagina cavity if we can call it that to have full stimulation…gauranteed an orgasm that is ultimate and yes woman are designed to have orgasm through intercourse and yes in the right position and with the right movement a man can both hit the clitoris with the scrotum and penetrate the inward area as well…if he moves in and out to fast this won’t happen and the problem is most men don’t know thi and most woman are therefore also out in the cold on it, in other words the man who can’t make a woman climax doesn’t know what he is doing and of course in a male dominated society most of them will come up with every explanation but that one…I have had 15 years of orgasms with my husband and as a result I am also one of the woman who loves sex I don’t only want sex 4 times a month like they say on average….I am sure if you work with your wife you can get her into the 25% because it is God’s intention for woman to enjoy sex Oops did I say the God word that is part of the problem the society we are living in kicked God out and woman were not designed by him to have pleasure outside of the giving of themselves…If I think about how sex makes me feel I won’t orgasm if I think about how sex makes my husband feel him feel I do every time….

I tested every trick and technique I learned on many different types of women.From young rich college co-eds to more mature and experienced women.From women who were shy and inexperienced to the erotically liberated freaks.I took note of the stuff that worked and dropped the shit that didnt and ended up with the list of 67 techniques that make women come.67 techniques that I used to be 100% positive my clients were satisfied every single time.”

The Content on this Site is presented in a summary fashion, and is intended to be used for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure, treatment plan, product, or course of action. MedHelp is not a medical or healthcare provider and your use of this Site does not create a doctor / patient relationship. We disclaim all responsibility for the professional qualifications and licensing of, and services provided by, any physician or other health providers posting on or otherwise referred to on this Site and/or any Third Party Site. Never disregard the medical advice of your physician or health professional, or delay in seeking such advice, because of something you read on this Site. We offer this Site AS IS and without any warranties. By using this Site you agree to the following Terms and Conditions. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your physician or 911 immediately.

Secondly, there’s tongue ache. If your tongue starts to get tired, take a quick time out and gently suck her clitoris or kiss around the vaginal area. After a couple of seconds you can go back to licking.

Moving back down, kiss down her stomach, sucking under her navel, maybe kissing along the edge of her underwear. Let your hands roam over her butt, squeezing, maybe smacking it if she’s into that. Pull her panties down (put a pillow under her hips to help with the angle) and take a deep breath before you dive right in. If you’re doing your job well, she’ll likely be squirming a little now, maybe panting.

We seek voluntary translators who are interested in translating Web4Health to new languages. We can provide the servers, and pay you 50 % of the income from ads on pages, which you have translated. We are especially interested in translators from German To English, From German, Swedish or English to French, Spanish, Italian, Greek, Finnish, Polish, Farsi, Russian.

It’s fair for you to expect her to be clean, just as you should be if you want a blowjob. Take a shower together before sex to ensure you’re both spotlessly clean and smelling like roses. If it’s an ongoing problem in your relationship, it’s okay to nicely tell her she needs to focus more attention there. There should be no smell after washing. [Read: 16 ways to get a girl to give you head and really enjoy it!]

– Start slow and build up rhythm later. If you want to know how to finger a girl right, don’t start aggressively. Starting slow allows her to appreciate the feel of flesh on flesh. This is the part where you pay attention to her reactions as it will give you a cue when to change your pace.

Yet again, another question about intercourse and (female) orgasms. I am 25 and have been having intercourse for about 1 1/2 years and have never experienced even the remotest possibility of climaxing from intercourse. Intercourse does NOTHING for me. I’ve read the Hite Report, I know it claims that only 30% of women orgasm from intercourse alone; however, most women who say they don’t orgasm from intercourse say that they at least receive some arousal or stimulation or pleasure from the sensation–it just doesn’t lead them to orgasm. However, I have never received the SLIGHTEST sexual pleasure from intercourse–and it’s making me so unhappy and desperate that I feel I’m going insane.

When zoning in between her legs, just as you appreciate her indulging more than just your package, she’d like you to go for more than her hood ornament. If you run your tongue around her clitoral head, concentrating on the 10 o’ clock and 2 o’clock marks on either side, and then gently slip your tongue beneath the hood, you’ll have her moaning from the intensity. While bang-on is too sensitive, those two sweet spots will make sure that she takes a licking and keeps on ticking, thanks to the bulbs hidden just beneath. The best way to pull off this maneuver is to have her straddle your face as you lay comfortably on your back. She’ll get to lean into the headboard so she can drive the action with ease, since you’ve put her in the driver’s seat. Or, if her clitoris is feeling a little over-sensitive, try to stimulate her G-spot instead — the spot on the front wall of her vagina that your fingers will rub up against if you try a “come hither” motion with them inside her. 

The clitoris is the most powerful spot on a woman’s body, so get ready to use two fingers (the index and middle finger) to rub her clitoris in a soft and circular manner. By now she should be sufficiently aroused with foreplay, so her clitoris will be swelling and slightly enlarged.

The good news is it’s not difficult. You just need to understand one golden rule: employ the art of teasing. To deny a woman what she wants until the last possible moment is to have her coming harder than ever. You must learn to divert your attention away from the obvious areas, which are, in general ascending order (but variable from woman to woman): her nipples, ass, G-spot and clit.

“Part of this difference in perception could be due to women faking orgasms, which research has suggested women will do for a variety of reasons, including out of love for their partner, to protect their partner’s self-esteem, intoxication, or to bring the sexual encounter to an end,” the authors note.

“It really turns me on. I love the actual act of it; the smell, the taste, etc. It’s also the most reliable way to make a woman orgasm. Most of the women I’ve been with said they find it hard or impossible to orgasm purely from sex.” — Zachary*, 33

“Swallow – You know what I’m talking about! If you’re doing it right, it will be inevitable that she will urinate in your mouth. Don’t be afraid. Encourage her. And when she does, give her the same courtesy you’d expect and swallow every drop.”

When we orgasm, it is a response of the nervous system to sexual stimulation. Both men and women can experience orgasm under certain conditions, typically following genital stimulation, but there is a lot of variation in people’s orgasm experiences, says Justin Garcia, Scientific Advisor for Match.com. 

Lena Dunham Continues To Open Up About Recent Hysterectomy: ‘Your Body Failing You Is A Loss That’s Hard To Explain’U.S. Figure Skater Adam Rippon Used To Only Eat ‘Three Pieces Of Bread’ A DayOlympian Adam Rippon Dedicates His Medal To His Mom… But Mainly Reese Witherspoon!Aly Raisman Flips A Middle Finger To Larry Nassar By Posing Nude For An Empowering AF Sports Illustrated Photoshoot — LOOK!INSPIRING!!! 🙌So Sad — Former NBA Player Rasual Butler & His Wife Leah LaBelle Killed In A Car CrashWhen We Have The Gym To Ourselves…Logan Paul Is Back! Should He Stay? Plus Harry Styles Better Not Mess This Up! AND…Demi Lovato’s Upcoming Tour Will Offer Therapy Sessions Before Shows!Things Have Gotten Worse. But We’ve Gotten Better! | Dealing With AnxietyLewis Hamilton Does Not Want You To Crap In His Bathroom, According To Ex-Girlfriend!We Love You, But Because Of Our Anxiety And Addiction….Khloé Kardashian Shares A Throwback Pic To Reflect On When She Was ‘Unhealthy Mentally’ & ‘Physically’Caitlyn Jenner Confronts Piers Morgan Over ‘Disrespectful’ Question About Her TransitionKhloé Kardashian Spills ALL On Ellen About Her Pregnancy & Romance With Tristan Thompson!Sam Smith Opens Up About His Past Obsession With His Weight — ‘My Body Image Is Always Going To Be An Issue’Mama June Has The Diet Tips You’ve Always Craved — Like Sleeping Late So You Skip Breakfast!Do U Want To Lose Weight? Watch THIS!Dr. Phil Responds To Accusations Of Show Staff Giving Known Addicts Drugs & Alcohol Luann de Lesseps Is Heading To Rehab Following Messy Palm Beach ArrestBombshell Report Claims Dr. Phil Provided His Addicted Guests With Drugs & Alcohol!Julianne Hough Delivers Inspiring Message About Finding Body Confidence After Being Called ‘Fat’ On SetGay Pro-Wrestler Says Masculine Shaming From LGBT Community Kept Him In The Closet Khloé Kardashian Slams Haters Criticizing Her For Working Out While Pregnant!Work Hard And Make It Fun!Merry Christmas, Friends!!Tristan Thompson Gushes About GF Khloé Kardashian Amid Her Pregnancy Reveal: ‘Girl You Look Better Now’Andrew Garfield Candidly Discusses His Relationship With Drugs — Says There’s So Much ‘Stigma’ Surrounding The Word!Aaron Carter Always Thought He Would ‘Die By 30’ — Even When He Was A Young KidJimmy Kimmel Returns To Late Night With His Son Billy For An Emotional Plea To Save Children’s Health Care — Watch!Fergie Gets Real About Just How Bad Her Crystal Meth Addiction Was — Says She ‘Was Hallucinating On A Daily Basis’Disgraced Doctor Larry Nassar’s Years Of Sexual Abuse Left Olympian McKayla Maroney ‘Deeply Depressed’ & ‘At Times Suicidal’Gwyneth Paltrow Blasted For ‘Extremely Damaging’ Weight Loss Advice On GoopBeyoncé Makes A Surprise Appearance To Honor Colin Kaepernick With Sports Illustrated’s Muhammad Ali Legacy Award!Surviving And THRIVING During The Holidays! For Us And For YOU! Conan O’Brien Actually Had A Segment Called ‘Creepy Matt Lauer’ During The Sochi Olympics — Watch!Helping Mom To Be Healthier!!!Fuck Trump! Fuck Trump! Fuck Trump!!!Donald Trump SLAMS ‘Poor Man’s Version Of Don King’ AKA LaVar Ball In Another Rant Against Him — Along With More Commentary About The NFL!Dog The Bounty Hunter Shares Update On His Wife’s Cancer Battle

Move your tongue in an up and down motion, or side to side. But keep up a rhythm, slow at first then building up. The clitoris is sensitive at the beginning, so going straight at it hard and fast with the tip of your tongue is likely to turn her off.

“oral ladies +the best way to make a woman orgasim”

I don’t usually cum from oral if it’s the first thing do. But if we’ve already fucked I cum in seconds. If we did cunnilingus and then fellatio I’m usually turned on enough to cum from cunnilingus but not supper quickly. It can be speeded up by the addition of a dildo.

Writer based in the Philadelphia area. Person who really loves her dog and watching cooking shows. Check out my writing on Thought Catalog and follow me on Facebook! Connect with me and submit your work on Collective World.

The basis for OMGYES’ information is their research. They conducted in-depth interviews with 1,000 women, asking them things like how they discovered what works for them, as well as what techniques, specifically, get them off. Working with Indiana University and the renowned Kinsey Institute, they also surveyed a nationally representative sample of another 1,000 women. The results are in-depth and extensive. For instance, here’s just some of the data they collected on multiple orgasms:

2) Some woman have mindbogglingly specific things which need to happen before they can have an orgasm. A ritual almost. Certain things need to be done in a specific order combined with some specific fantasies. So try mixing things up. Experimenting is fun.

I WISH that’s how my wife got off! Honestly if she didn’t have those damn spiky hairs on the inside of her labia that her clit would hit against if I did that it would save me so much head movement…

“I think part of it is getting some vicarious pleasure through my partner. Knowing that it’s hot for them turns me on, and eventually just the act itself turns me on. I like to imagine what it must feel like.” — Alec*, 24

You see, the best oral sex isn’t about how long you spend desperately licking and sucking (with a couple of fingers inside for good measure). The best oral sex is the climax of a chain of events. It’s about priming the territory, knowing how to exploit her desire to be delicately tortured and masterfully creating a sweet build-up to the point where you decide to hand over control.

During the plateau phase she may experience a skin flush, deeper breathing and a higher heart rate; certainly her genitals will change color, as her labia become flushed with blood and her vaginal tissues swell.

Before she settles into a rhythm that eventually leads to orgasm (you’ll know by her consistent hip movements), move away from that area and pay some more attention to her nipples. Reaching down behind her with one hand, find some of her wetness, squeeze her derriere and tease the hole with a finger. Slip it inside a little way if she responds.

Finish her off – If you don’t know where the clit is, LEARN! While the entire area qualifies as an erogenous zone for a woman, pay special attention to her clit. Massage it with your tongue and pay attention to her verbal and non-verbal languages. Do whatever gets the best reaction!

I flat refuse to ever have that discussion with any man ever again. I dated one guy when we broke up (20 years later) and he was very willing and tried and it didn’t happen. I know that played a role in the break up. My 2nd husband, it happened every time (he died). My current man is awesomely good. He is 99% impotent from cancer treatments. He tries. Maybe if their were not 20+ years of being abused BECAUSE I couldn’t achieve orgasm (and other reasons but that was what started it and was always the truth of the matter-he felt awful because of my problem), it would happen. I don’t know. He does try. No toys. Not sure why. He will occasionally use a straight dildo but nothing that vibrates and I have them. Obviously a waste of my money. He finally asked the fatal question, and I LIED. I will NEVER hurt another human being that bad.

Every week, we scour the city to find the best bars our capital has to offer. Whether you’re a cocktail kind of guy, or a man who enjoys a decent draft beer, there’s a GQ-worthy drinking spot to suit every taste.

I enjoyed reading your post, however for me (as a woman) I would’ve made you start eating me out right away… I hate the kissing all around… I’m already turned on because I know you’re going down on me. I don’t need you to go around the world, just get to the point! 🙂

All this time, her legs should still remain together – keep them bound with yours. When you think she’s really getting fired up, separate them with a knee and slide it up to meet her pussy. Let her rub against it for a second and after leaving her nipples rock hard with a few parting, feather-light licks, you can go back down south. Free her legs and let her ride your face to ecstasy – this time, you should be down there a mere minute or two. Quickly get into a rhythm and find out what sensations she prefers – when I’m close, I just adore having my clit firmly sucked, but not too hard.

I wonder if it’s just my personality sometimes because I’m a giver in general, but I think sometimes I may want to try “taking” and focus on that a little. There is someone that “plays” with me and when he touches me I feel like I want more and would want that, but it’s never really been a thing of mine so it’s a little confusing. But then I do really love giving, it’s a lot of fun for me, and I get off on giving pleasure, so I don’t know. It’s been a very long time for me, so I don’t actually know anymore 🙂

You sound luke that one guy who only got lucky due to a heavy amount of alcohol, and because all he has is fuzzy images from the night before thinks he is some kind of sex god who gets to criticise people on an online forum for stating their opinion, or are you incapable of knowing what a forum topic and post are about.

If I don’t orgasm within a few minutes, my fiance gets soft and falls asleep. He has implied that it’s too hard to do and takes too long. He loses “steam”. He has a window of opportunity to have sex or he loses interest and his erection. Pressure much? yes. I am a very affectionate and passionate woman and I’m attractive. He says I need more hair down there (no, I don’t shave the main stuff, just what creeps onto the legs). He also says I don’t have a smell…I’m “too clean”. I shower once a day and refuse to let my hygeine go. No fishy smells for me.

There’s a chance that she may come on to you first and no man in his right mind would wait to respond. But wait, don’t give in! Tease her a little, play a little hard to get. The game of cat and mouse won’t just make things hotter but also give her a feeling of control – something a lot of women just love!

Don’t rush to the finish, it’s more of a marathon than a one hundred meter sprint. Begin by kissing her body, starting from her neck and working your way down; remember no-where is of limits, kiss her stomach, her legs and anywhere else you can think of. This will help her to relax and feel comfortable.

In one study, researchers worked with 36 women who could not have orgasms in the missionary position. Half the women were encouraged to masturbate to become more comfortable with their genitals and their sexual responsiveness, a standard approach in sex therapy. The others were taught the CAT. Based on diaries kept during the 21-day period after this training, the masturbation group reported a 27 percent increase in orgasms during missionary-position intercourse, while the CAT group reported twice the increase, 56 percent.

Start with a long, slow lick from her opening up to her clit. Go exploring – you want to mix up small, light strokes made with the tip of your tongue with broader, flat strokes. Don’t just lick up all her wetness, move it around with your mouth – especially to her clitoris! Try thrusting in with your tongue, and/or get a finger inside and curl it upwards, crooking it towards yourself in a “come hither” motion (don’t try and get both fingers and tongue inside at the same time, I don’t think its possible. If you’re getting your fingers inside, play with her clitoris with your tongue). Lick at her clitoris, play with it (with your fingers and your tongue). Some girls like it if you suck on it. Some like it if you move the hood back and touch the bead (veryyyy lightly). Some like it if you just lick with varying amounts of pressure. Some are too sensitive to be touched there at all. You’ll figure it out. Establish a rhythm. Dive into her like you’ve never tasted something as good in your life. Thrust your fingers in and out, with the curl motion if you can manage but establish a rhythm. Listen to her cues – and if she says “don’t stop”, do not stop. Do exactly what you were doing – not faster, not slower. Don’t mix it up too much if she seems into it. After she has climaxed, kiss her thighs, her stomach, maybe try and draw out her pleasure a bit (I’ll lay off the clit though, it becomes too sensitive sometimes).